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Aren’t women and men equally prone to fitna?

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    Aren’t women and men equally prone to fitna?

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    Every time a man commits zina, a woman is also commiting zina. If women didn’t have this inclination then no man would be able to fornicate.

    and 70 percent of cheating happens with MARRIED people. It makes me wonder.
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    Re: Aren’t women and men equally prone to fitna?

    No.

    Last time I checked, the way it works is that men go to women and try to solicit their number, not the other way around (unless you're as good looking as me, of course). I can even back this up with data from dating website's. Long story short; men as a whole find ~50% of women attractive; women as a whole find ~15- ~20% of men attractive.

    In other words. When women cheat they mostly share the same top 20% of men. While the majority of cheating men have to do with the bottom ~50% women (thus below average looking).


    SIDENOTE: This equation assumes that people only go for looks. Which is the case for cheating.

    EDIT: Forgot to mention that since most men have to do with the below average looking women when they want to cheat, most men simply can't cheat, even if they wanted to since they are not good looking enough for the women they desire.
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    Re: Aren’t women and men equally prone to fitna?

    format_quote Originally Posted by 00001001 View Post
    No.

    Last time I checked, the way it works is that men go to women and try to solicit their number, not the other way around (unless you're as good looking as me, of course). I can even back this up with data from dating website's. Long story short; men as a whole find ~50% of women attractive; women as a whole find ~15- ~20% of men attractive.

    In other words. When women cheat they mostly share the same top 20% of men. While the majority of cheating men have to do with the bottom ~50% women (thus below average looking).


    SIDENOTE: This equation assumes that people only go for looks. Which is the case for cheating.

    EDIT: Forgot to mention that since most men have to do with the below average looking women when they want to cheat, most men simply can't cheat, even if they wanted to since they are not good looking enough for the women they desire.
    huh? How is that a "No."? Unless the act is forced upon, then regardless of who approaches who, they're both committing zina.
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    Re: Aren’t women and men equally prone to fitna?

    format_quote Originally Posted by keiv View Post
    huh? How is that a "No."? Unless the act is forced upon, then regardless of who approaches who, they're both committing zina.
    The question is if both genders are equally prone to zina. Not sure where you get the idea that I give men a pass (I don't).
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    Re: Aren’t women and men equally prone to fitna?

    But, why do married people commit Zina??? it's really weird.
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    Re: Aren’t women and men equally prone to fitna?

    format_quote Originally Posted by 00001001 View Post
    The question is if both genders are equally prone to zina. Not sure where you get the idea that I give men a pass (I don't).
    The title does say that. I guess I have comprehension problems
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    Re: Aren’t women and men equally prone to fitna?

    Both genders are prone to zina-men and women. Both should lower their gazes and dress modestly, no double standards here
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    Re: Aren’t women and men equally prone to fitna?

    format_quote Originally Posted by MiracleSurvivor View Post
    Every time a man commits zina, a woman is also commiting zina. If women didn’t have this inclination then no man would be able to fornicate.

    and 70 percent of cheating happens with MARRIED people. It makes me wonder.
    Are you saying that if women didnt want to have zina then men wouldnt as well? Buddy i hate to break it to you but men would still want to comit zina- it emerges from the desires not anything else. I dont think a mans gonna think "oh that woman doesnt have any inclinations towards zina.. That means i wont have any!" ( this goes for both genders btw)
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    Re: Aren’t women and men equally prone to fitna?

    Dude unless its assault(forced) then its zina. Regardless of who's commiting it
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