put it this way, in Islam.. u hav the household, the main responsibility of the man is to finance his family, the main responsability of teh woman is to manage the home and upbring the children. There's no difference about that. And we know for fact, that in Islam, the man is fully responsible for his wife.. he has to spend on her and everyone else. The woman has full right to NOT spend a cent on her husband if she chooses, she can do what she pleases with her money. -ofcourse she will be rewarded very very greatly if for example she chooses to help her husband out financially, but the bottom line is, she is not to be put into a position where she has to stress herself tryin2feed the family- Similar to the way that it's not right for the promotion manager to be forced to do the finance manager's jobs.. everyone has a responsibility, and if u want efficiency, each worker should excel in their field.. otherwise the business will fail (read economics about market failiure (inefficiency) lol.. its application is the same when it comes to family issues
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Also, we know that in Islam, the husband should also help his wife out in house management, he is encouraged (As our prophet himself did), to help his wife with cooking and all related household activities, and he also has full responsibilty 2 take part in upbringing the children.. now.. what's this got 2do with ur question?
Let's say the wife decides to work, and we leave the kids to themselves, who is going to take care of the kids? who will teach them manners and knowledge? lets say we put them in childcare... the fact is, everyone knows that childcares do NOT teach them anything, they let the kdis do wat they please, hence they either become spoilt, or they become brats (its a fact.. checkout any kid who's lived in these institutions all their lives and compare them with well bred kids). Also.. what benefit is it when the children become strangers to their parents.. during the night they are asleep, and during the day they only see their parents during breakfast.. , and when the parents get back home, they are too tired to communicate with their children.
One might say 'but they're only lil kids', THE FACT IS, (there are a number of psychology papers on this matter, by kafirs too.. tareq suwaydan has a compilation of psychological assesment of children written by kafirs..) during the kdis first 3 years of childhood, they are THE MOST IMPORTANT, in terms of their upbringing.. it will determine their mindset, their behaviour etc.. so who is going to be there to nourish them.
HOWEEEEVVERRR... there are points to be made... FIRSTLY... THE wife herself has FULLLLLLL RIGHTTTTT to an EDUCATIONNNNN AND Qualification (especially when the education environment meets islamic requirements)!! It's important for woman to be good examples for their children, and be educated mentally and spiritually - that's not an attack at sisters who didn't go uni! but it's definately not something that's un-praiseworthy to be good in multiple disciplines-. Secondly... what i mentioned, does not mean that it is haram for women to work...
what it DOES mean however.. is that the children are always the first priority. And that the burden should never be placed on the wife to go earn money and feed the children, that is the husband's primary responsibility. Also, women taking care of the home does NOT imply that she isn't encouraged to research, invent, write and make dawah. Islamic history is full of women who have made great contributions in many fields, including Islam. In other religions, women where not (till recently) allowed to even attach their names to scientific researches, Marie Curie is an example.. she had to attribute some of her inventions under her husband's name because of some prejudice against women back then (and even now, but in a dfiferent manner) here.. read 4urself:
"But, in a culture in which most women -- especially married women -- lacked the economic power or legal right to produce or market an invention in their own name, many products and processes developed by women were publicly credited to a husband, a father, a brother, or a male partner, making women's successes invisible. " excerpt from "Women in the history of technology - women inventors", by Susan Davis Herring..
In Islam, this absolutely wrong, Women (as well as men) are encouraged (in fact it is an obligaton), to learn, educate, invent, propagate.. just read into the lives of female companions and see their contributions, and not once will you find for example.. a class given by Aisha attributed as being given by her husbadn instead..
She IS allowed to run a business, she is allowed to work, she is allowed 2 earn income... Khadijah, the wife of prophet is excellent example of that, she was a business lady.. and she was rich.. however, as long as all that does NOT interfere with her responsibilities.. AND.. that the work she is doing is halal (same condition for guys btw..). But she should not be put in a position where she faces a work overlaod, caring after the home as well as work.. and hey.. u might ask "why cant the guy n girl swap responsibilities"... lol.. i refer u 2 ur IB psych text book.. checkup females and males and how the left half (or is it right half) hemisphere of brain is more dominant for whcih sex.. ull notice that females are excellent in emotionally relating to their children, apart from other things which they can only do, such as nursing the babies and many other things. Also.. men tend to be able 2handle stressful stiuations without being 2 emotionally overloaded by it... alot of kafir psychologists admit this.
And... finally... compare non Muslim households with proper Islamic households... compare things like divorce rates, household stability.. and many other things.. and checkout the reasons for this.. it all comes down 2 family structure.
So the final answer.. it is not haram for a female 2 earn income.. as long as the former is kept in mind.
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