some girls really ruin fo the rest of us, i hate it wen people stereotype u because you are young or because u are raised in a non muslim country,a person would see a sister do something bad next thing u know peoplewill think that all girls are like that
when i tell people that i never dated any1 despite the fact that i am 19 they think thats weird or dont believe mei feel that i always have to prove myself
that is sooo true sis! it really annoying but you just ahve to change their opinions by your actions! allah swt is watching, nomatter what people say he is the one whos going to judge us at the end of the day
It's sad to hear people think like that. And if they're muslim it evan worse subhanallah! Sister, you don't need to prove yourself to anyone, Allah ta'ala knows you more than you know yourself. If someone blames you for a sin that you did not commit then allah is Ash-Shahid (The Witness). I know how annoying it must be for you but have sabr with such people inshallah.
May Allah reward you with good for sticking to what is right despite the pressure from those around you....MashaAllah that is some Iman you got there girl!!!
thanks sisters really, whatyou all saying is very true ALLAH is the one who will judge not anyone else i guess i DONT have to prove myself anymore sisters my iman is low many times dating and boys is somethink ALLAH saved me from,thank you for your kind words
so true. When I say I have no desire for that sort of thing I just get laughed at! My friends pass my mobile number to all these guys trying to hook me up with someone!!!
tell me about it....this girl i knew did something really stupid (got herself pregnant the stupid girl) and then everyone looks at us and says....oh I bet you also have a boy friend and who know you might have sinned as well...
excuse moi?
just because she is a *** it don't make the rest of us **** as well!!!
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thanks sisters really, whatyou all saying is very true ALLAH is the one who will judge not anyone else i guess i DONT have to prove myself anymore sisters my iman is low many times dating and boys is somethink ALLAH saved me from,thank you for your kind words
You welcome sister Please make duaa for us all.
take care,
I guess this could be one of the reasons rasoulo Allaah alayhi salaatu wassalaam warned us about bad comapnions, cos they either harm u or leave a negative effect on u...that's if u befriended those girls, otherwise don't worry bout it, we all get that kinda grief n the older u r the more absurd it sounds to people but........so what, alhamdulillah something to be proud of innit!
i go to an islamic school (government funded), and our head teacher and lots of other teachers are non muslims, When they see the behaviour of some stupid students, they give us mulims a bad reputation, it;s very sad indeed as it;s not everyone
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some girls really ruin fo the rest of us, i hate it wen people stereotype u because you are young or because u are raised in a non muslim country,a person would see a sister do something bad next thing u know peoplewill think that all girls are like that
i feel that i always have to prove myself
sisters my iman is low many times dating and boys is somethink ALLAH saved me from,thank you for your kind words
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