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    i got married the 1st of sep 2007 after a love story between me and my husband and because me and my family we live in australia i left the country after 3 months to fix my husband visa and let him join me as soon as possible.

    in april 2008 he joined me and because of a rental crsis we had to live with my parents and that's when my problem start. My dad didn't like my husband without a major reson and problems start coming between them and leads to problem between me and my husband .after couple of month, my husband couldn't take it anymore and decided to move out by himself to live with a friend of him until he get a good job and suitable place to live in together.

    but the problem didnt finish as he got trouble providing the job and the house and he started getting upset and stressed so he decided to go back to the country and left me here to finish my study and join him after but the problem is my dad asking him to divorce me and not letting me go back to my husband in my country and saying that he's gonna dishonour me and consider me dead if i go there.

    but me and my husband kept in contact.

    in the other side my in laws the pressuring him to divorce and stop waiting for me to solve the problem and make everyone happy.

    my husband start get influenced and start talking about divorce and separation and he gave a short timeframe to be present there and the problem that i dont even have enough money to get a plane ticket to go and my dad still not agreeing .

    what should i do in this case?
    please give me urgent advice?

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    salam,
    i got something new raised and i'm still confused my husband got for me a ticket for this sunday coming and i still didnt let my father know about that. i told my mum and she said if i go i will be choosing my husband over my dad and that she can't come on my side against him. i dont know what to do and how even to let my father know its so quick and i'm so stressed and scared so please help me
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    Have u managed to speak to a scholar abt your situation?
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    i did spoke to a scholar and he told me that my husband got more rights over me and i have to obey him but my dad has to be happy somehow
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