guys honestly i feel very discouraged and i'll tell you why

the thing is that since im going to college right now, the classes are hard and it seems like its gonna get harder, i know i need to finish college and get a good job, but i don't know how long it's going to take, I don't know why people made education like this, i don't know why we have to take stupid required classes that are a waste of time, honestly i don't think this is a very fair thing, because there isn't ENOUGH motivation for me or anyone else to still go to college and take these classes.

First of all, the jobs, why did this world make getting a job so hard?, why are there people in this world poor? why does the government need to make life a living hell for people that are in poverty? why can't the government help out those people and be fair with them?

Allah made us to worship him and follow his orders, right?
and this is his test, but getting a job and doing certain things for a living is not part of the test, the stupid government in this world are making other peoples life suck for NO REASON, If the government in every country were wise enough to help out every person, and if they were good Believers of Allah then they wood make life better, but the only test would be to worship Allah and follow his orders and it shouldn't be that hard.

anyways, honestly with all this many problems in the world and me, i really don't feel patient because i think this is a waste of time and life, and since i have nothing to look foward to, there is no point in living.

Allah should just take my life away right now, because i just realized that this would benefit my family, because i know that im lazy and don't feel like doing certain things ,so my family is better off without me.

I hope that I pass away tonight, It is up to Allah to take me away anytime, I just hope he does it tonight,

I know this sounds very messed up and regretful but what else CAN I DO IN THIS FRIGGEN WORLD!!!!??????

you guys can pray for me if you want, i would appreciate that very much, but pray for me that allah gives me something to look foward to, and do not pray for me that i be more patient because i am sick of patience, pray for me that i have something to look foward to at the moment and hopefully time will go fast enough.

ok maybe the financial crisis you can blame on the government. But your own happiness and success? thats down to you-nothing to do with them.
Ask yourself, why dont you have motivation? is it really because you dont like taking some classes or is it much more than that? after graduating do you see yourself sitting at home being a couch potato or are you going to get up and make something of yourself?
And actually getting a job and making a living is part of the test and there are guidelines for that.
We can and inshaAllah will pray for you, but you have to be the first to help yourself and want to help yourself. You want to end your life, you think the journey to the aakhirah is easy? Are you ready for that? Make the best of what you have, what else can you do in this friggin world? Make something of yourself, graduate, make an effort in your classes and follow what you have an interest in and barakah comes from Allah. Dont give up because life is full of ups and downs, just dont forget Allah at either time.

i honestly don't see any point of living if i have nothing to look foward to in life

MrKhan89 said:

i honestly don't see any point of living if i have nothing to look foward to in life

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Find a purpose to live. There is ALWAYS a reason to live. Here are a few:
* Help other people
* make people smile

Those are the easiest ones and you can do them on a day to day basis. And when I say help other people it can be the simplest things: open a door for someone, smile at them, have a conversation with your neighbour. These little things all add up.

Believe me I know how tough life can be, but you have to roll with the punches. Life is a boxing match: You are going to get hit, but that doesn't mean you throw in the towel: get back up and keep fighting.

but getting a job and doing certain things for a living is not part of the test,

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wrong anwser.

EVERYTHING is part of the test.

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Bro khan, listen. We all go through this, so insha Allah things will soon get better.


For the time being, is it possible for you to find an alternative? For example, in education - you can find a different course which might fit in with your interests. I.e. i remember hating education like you so bad we had A levels in college], to the extent that i thought there was no way out. But then i asked Allah for help, and i found a course which is well kool [Btec/National Diploma in Science], and i get some of the highest grades in it alhamdulillah.

The course i found now suits me, like you just gota do coursework only, because before that i had to do exams which i always got fails in.


So try to ask around, and try to write down your interests and what ur good at, what u can achieve. Then make du'a to Allah that He makes it easy for you to find a good job, something which interests u and benefits everyone, something which you're all pleased with [you and ur family.]



So try to look at life from a different perspective, see through the eyes you want to see life with and go ahead with that with your reliance on Allah. You'll feel positive through this new vision insha Allah, and achieve alot more than you're doing now. That's what u want, and insha Allah with time that vision will be a success.

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Bro khan, listen. We all go through this, so insha Allah things will soon get better.


For the time being, is it possible for you to find an alternative? For example, in education - you can find a different course which might fit in with your interests. I.e. i remember hating education like you so bad we had A levels in college], to the extent that i thought there was no way out. But then i asked Allah for help, and i found a course which is well kool [Btec/National Diploma in Science], and i get some of the highest grades in it alhamdulillah.

The course i found now suits me, like you just gota do coursework only, because before that i had to do exams which i always got fails in.


So try to ask around, and try to write down your interests and what ur good at, what u can achieve. Then make du'a to Allah that He makes it easy for you to find a good job, something which interests u and benefits everyone, something which you're all pleased with [you and ur family.]



So try to look at life from a different perspective, see through the eyes you want to see life with and go ahead with that with your reliance on Allah. You'll feel positive through this new vision insha Allah, and achieve alot more than you're doing now. That's what u want, and insha Allah with time that vision will be a success.

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your right man, i will do my best to see what i can do, and btw has anyone been yelled at for getting a bad grade or failing a class in college?

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Alot of people are yelled at, some others are pressurised, but u need to be pro active. Make yourself feel excited, so you feel you have hope. Ask Allah to make it good, exciting and beneficial for you, so it happens this way.

MrKhan89 said:

i honestly don't see any point of living if i have nothing to look foward to in life

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chin up ol bean, Allah is on ur side, how great is tha:awesome:t

MrKhan89 said:

First of all, the jobs, why did this world make getting a job so hard?

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The world didn't, it's the people.

why are there people in this world poor?

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So that one can appreciate wealth.

You're not a big fan of patience, I see. Allah sides with the ones who are patient during tough times. *shrug*

Do you really not have a goal? Something you want to attain?

Salam,

Never give up always strive on and keep a balance, we cannot sack off this life and hope for death. We are never given anything we cannot deal with. And you dont know what you got till its gone.

Allah has already promised us something to look forward to but to get it we need is faith, patience, obediance, its a done deal. We just need to work hard here and deal with whatever life throws at us. Then we have something to look forward to. I suggest you do not give up on the patience as 'patience is a virtue' meaning its a quality that we need to get to jannah.

Think of the people in a worse position than yourself the ones who cannot afford education, the ones with no family to care about them being lazy, you are wealthy all ready.

You have been given this opportunity to study at college, they must think you are smart enough and have potential to finish, over other people that may have valued it more and worked hard and slogged it out, stayed up late to get that qualification that may get them a job for life. The people you see with jobs how did they get the jobs? No one just walked upto them while there were chilling and said heres the MD job at b-mobile. Everyone is tested, life is a big test we pass or fail, heaven or hell.

Imagine if mankind was not motivated, from day, we would have no food he couldnt be bothered to plant any seeds, no houses, he couldnt be bothered to make any, no roads etc, etc. We need to take our minds out of this time of ignorance, this time of the fast food culture, I want it now culture and look at reality, can we build a ship in a day probably not, can we sail around the world in a day or even a week I dont think so, why because everything takes time We wouldnt ask for the boat to sink as we cant wait. If something will take some time, what will we have to do, wait ie patience. We all need it.

Gratitude seems to be a quality we could all do with a bit more of, we moan when it rains, we moan when its too hot, we unhappy when we dont get what we want, when we want it, imagine what the world would be like if we did?! Are we forgetting that we have life, we are alive we have access to the internet so we can speak to someone when we are feeling down, what about those who are alone really alone, they have noone physical to communicate with, no internet no friends or family, there are still alive all they have is Allah they have faith and patience. They are aware that Allah is the all hearer all seer, he knows what we are up to all the time, he hears us be ungrateful and inpatient.

You have many blessings, for a reason, what will you do with them, use them or lose them.

Salam
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