Reading your post, I can tell you're not after advice. You're ranting because you're angry at Allah since you feel that Allah is being unjust to you. All the same, I say the following in the hope that it helps somewhat, InshaAllah. Just keep an open mind.
What is yaqeen? It means believing and submitting to the will of Allah.
If Allah wills that you be put in jail for the rest of your life, is that it? You'd stop believing and worshipping in Allah? You'd be angry at Allah for giving you all that hardship for the rest of your life? That is not how it's supposed to be. If you have yaqeen in Allah, then you should be content with what he decrees for you. If you're put in jail, you don't cry unfair unfair for the rest of your life. You accept, be content with the hand Allah has dealt to test YOU specifically and deal with it. Do you think you're here to have things your way in life?
This world in comparision to the hearafter is only a day or part of a day. So it makes little sense in chasing after it or being captivated by the "happiness" it offers. A true believer's happiness should be in the worship of Allah.
You mention that it's not guaranteed that Allah grants you heaven, but that depends on your yearning for and how much you work for it!
As a muslim, your purpose in life seems a bit tainted. Your purpose in this world is to worship Allah to the best of your abilities. That doesn't just mean you read salah, fast and all the outward stuff. You have to have firm belief alongside all that. You need to have firm trust in Allah that whatever comes your way is for your benefit, in this world and the next. Till you think like that, hardship and troubles will always affect you and any good thing that befalls you, will probably distract you away from deen.
I guarantee you that if you pray and make dua with full sincerity, then you will have a closer relationship with Allah and by extension, you'll be content with what he decrees for you. Notice that I'm not saying he'll give you all the happiness in the world and accept all your duas -> I'm saying contentment. That is a mighty gift in comparison to some worldy gain.
Concentrate your efforts into becoming a mountain of yaqeen, such that no amount of wind (hardship) can move you side to side.
Allah is what you think of him, if you believe he won't help you, then that is exactly what will happen. You NEED to have optimism and faith when asking of him. If you continue down this path of "Allah's good to everyone else but me" then you'll grow in misguidance and your life will only get worse. You'll remain a bitter and lost person. Get out of that darkness.
One of Allah's name is Al Adl - the Most Just and he is also the Most Wise. Submit to this understanding.
I am in no way trying to belittle your hardship, I know it must be extremely hard having to live in constant troubles. But if the hardship is there and there's nothing physical you can do to eliminate it and if things don't seem to change, then what else, as a muslim, is there left for you but to submit to what Allah has given you? See, even if something does go your way, you'll be living in constant fear as to whether something bad will happen to make it go wrong. That's why I say, change your thinking into being content with everything, good and bad. Don't let things phase you.
I don't believe the amount of forgiveness is related to the suffering you're subjected to. You could be the best muslim in the world, yet Allah will still make you suffer in order to test you. Look at Yusuf Alaihe salam - a prophet - he was taken as a salve, jailed for several years. There's plenty more examples.
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