assalamu alaykum wrwb,
I am writing this because I want to marry a revert brother. I am a revert and I think I would have more in commen with another revert. But the problem is I can't find any revert brothers anywhere. They are so few. I just read that there are 4 female reverts to every male revert in the usa! It seems like my wish to marry a revert brother will never come true...
What do you think?
I just read that there are 4 female reverts to every male revert in the usa!
But don't ever thinking that is the reason why Islam allowing one man has four wives.
You always have a chance, sis.
Make du'a every time after Shalaath, wish Allah gives you a husband. Insya Allah, you will get a husband.
However, is he is not U.S citizen or Canadian, and that's means you must move to another place, you must accept that destiny because Allah always knows what's the best for you.
Last edited by ardianto; 07-03-2009 at 04:24 AM.
Reason: I forget, she lives in Canada
Coming to the main topic, sister I don't think you should narrow your choice of marriage to just reverts. There are many broad-minded born Muslims who will InshAllah understand your inhibitions about Islam and help you grow as a Muslimah. So just remove this criterion and just focus on finding a Momin.
If Allah helps you, none can overcome you; and if He forsakes you, who is there after Him that can help you? And in Allah (Alone) let believers put their trust.
Surah Ale Imran : 160
It was narrated that Anas ibn Maalik (may Allaah be pleased with him) said:
The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allaah be upon him) climbed up Uhud, accompanied by Abu Bakr, ‘Umar and ‘Uthmaan, and the mountain shook with them. He struck it with his foot and said: “Stand firm, O Uhud, for there is no one on you but a Prophet or a Siddeeq or two martyrs.”
Narrated by al-Bukhaari (3483)
Allah (Subhaanahu Wa Taala) does not inspire seeking forgiveness in a slave whom he wishes to punish.
maybe u should get in contact with some revert sisters u might be able 2 get som good info from them and advice. inshallah . May Allah help u get the best partner ameen
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