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    short n strait 2 da point: if sum1 says to their partner '' divorce divorce'' PURELY AS A JOKE and without the intention what impact does this have on the marij? was only sed twice thanks in advance
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    Re: saying DIVORCE as a joke

    It is counted as a real divorce, whether a person was kidding or not. There are 3 things where the 'joke' counts as truth, whether you mean it or not. The prophet peace be upon him said " There are three matters in which it is not permissible to joke: marriage, divorce and emancipation (of slave)." So if this has happened, then all the rulings of divorce apply.
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    Re: saying DIVORCE as a joke

    just saying the word 'divorce' does nothing on the other hand, why would someone randomly say 'divorce' escapes me, either way, if it isn't clearly stated, then it has no affect.
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    Re: saying DIVORCE as a joke

    What must be rememberd that marriage/divorce is no joke,, being almost divorced myself knows exactly how delicate these matters are. It does count as a divorce.
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    Re: saying DIVORCE as a joke

    Assalamou alaikoum,

    If you say it as a joke or when you was up set does not affect you because it is only laghwo in islam so dont worry but dont repeat it again
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    Re: saying DIVORCE as a joke

    AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu

    No joke. Should never be mentioned!

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    Re: saying DIVORCE as a joke

    format_quote Originally Posted by touba View Post
    Assalamou alaikoum,

    If you say it as a joke or when you was up set does not affect you because it is only laghwo in islam so dont worry but dont repeat it again

    But why would someone wan't to say divorce as a joke?
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    Re: saying DIVORCE as a joke

    format_quote Originally Posted by celina View Post
    But why would someone wan't to say divorce as a joke?
    May be he want or she want to make him or her afraid and respect by a joke rather than real words to give attention to what gonna happen like a joke tahdid of relation a bit
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    Re: saying DIVORCE as a joke

    format_quote Originally Posted by celina View Post
    But why would someone wan't to say divorce as a joke?
    since when do you answer a question with another question? thats not the point. why r u bothered y he said it as a joke. all i wanted was a clear answer and thats not what i am gettin on here. thanks for all your replies but can you provide me with evidence and back up your points ta
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    Re: saying DIVORCE as a joke

    format_quote Originally Posted by anonymous View Post
    since when do you answer a question with another question? thats not the point. why r u bothered y he said it as a joke. all i wanted was a clear answer and thats not what i am gettin on here. thanks for all your replies but can you provide me with evidence and back up your points ta
    Aslam, that question wasn't really directed to you, I was trying to understand the essence of it myself, although a lot of people have told me that saying divorce as a joke counts as a real divorce. Will try and get sum evidence InshALLAH.
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    Re: saying DIVORCE as a joke

    I had a case when we went to the doctors for my son who was ill.

    there have an LCD screen there which comes up with your name and the room to go to. and her name appeared as Miss instead of Mrs.

    I joked with her and said I didnt know you divorced me lol

    I think in those circumstances fair enough, but never repeat it or give the impression you being serious even though you joking
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    Re: saying DIVORCE as a joke

    Assalamou alaikoum wa rahmatou allah wabarakatou,

    All i know that saying something as angry or jokes doesnt affect because is laghwo in islam

    but if you say 3 times word divorce with a serious niyatte then is a serious matter i hope it helps,

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