wazifa to bring wife back to home

Asalam o Alikum

Few days later my wife has left my home along with my small baby, we had been marriage around more then 1 year , and that round 3rd time he done this, by lefting home.

I had tried every thing to keep him please, even more then what i can do, In term of money and facilitation i had stoped every thing for me but give him good money and facilities.

But, this time she had also done very very wrong thing not only with me but also with my family too. and the tension is now between families not alone me an my wife.

Still, I love him with my heart and donot want to leave him. I always teaches him calmly about the thing shes is doing wrong, ofcourse there are few thing which my wife donot like in me and I had tried to change what ever i can, but my wife does not want to change him.

What i understand after coming to our house she still want that all the custom which she do in his own house can be done here and ofcourse every family has its own way of living, even her parent came and fight with me (tons of times, i always reply them politely but have deep pain in my mind that what my wife is doing with me, bringing his parents to shout on me for thing between wife and me) and also they shout on my parents too many many time. Ofcourse no body like that for small things like going outside and small things,

What i understand they want their daughter to be totally independent but we live in joint family system and i cannot move as i cannot afford to live alone.

I still love my wife after getting tooooo much pain from him with my heart and donot want to leave him , my family does not want to bring him back as she is doing too much bad thing with all of us.

I want that my wife accept his mistakes and excuse all of us and bring back and leave all bad things , is there any wazifa I can recite? I am not alone in the house so its not possible for me to do any wazifa that can be get notice by my family and i donot want to let know my family that i am doing wazifa?

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don't know about specific wazifa , generally make dua to Allah to bless your marriage.

If your wife left home 3 times already , it's time to give a serious thought about the married life . If u can't afford to live separately with your wife , explain it to her clearly . IF she wants to continue her married life , she must adjust with the joint family. If she does not want to consider it , then tell her to take the decision if she wants divorce .


As u 2 have a kid , give your best to keep the marriage . But if u 2 can't live peacefullly , offer Isthekhara salat to decide if it's better to end such unhappy life.

May Allah grants what is best for u .

Well, what i personally think that , their is more tension and fight arises due to the intervention of our families, if we discard the things happening in both our families their is not much issue or almost not any issue just between my wife and me. The issues are actually now between families.

What i notice that my wife tell each and every thing happening to her parents and the small things which can be ignored become too much problem , there is not much big issues, there are very small issues and even when i heard thing from outside people there are many many wrong things which i heard , which never happened.

I agree there are few things which a girl has to compromise when he came to new family which I always tell my wife to compromise as these things happen in every life and after some time there will be no such issue, my families has our way of livening and your family own, I cannot change my complete family way of livening, its you which had to change.

The most important point that make the stuff worst that, even on the small issues, which can be easily resolved by me and my wife or can be easily compromised if husband is giving you too much love and care , even then the parents of my wife came to our house or even when our family goes to their house start fighting verbally, yes , they start fighting for small luxury things even with my parents.

In our society , its the worst thing if wife parents parents shouts, and they are fighting on thing which are nothing. Yes, they shout on me, even on my mother and father you can understand how embrass I can feel when my parents in law do that, i said too many times to my wife that this is the wrong thing , we had to solve our issues byself so why did not ask your parents to interface that will create tensions in family, but he always ignore me.

I think if they stop doing such thing, there will never be any big issue.

Marriage of Prophet Ismail peace upon him:

Allah’s prophet Ismail the son of Ibrahim (pbuh) got married and lived in Makah. His father Ibrahim (pbuh) used to visit him frequently. Ibrahim (pbuh) travelled to visit Ismail on one occasion to find Ismail (pbuh) away but his wife at home. Ismail’s wife welcomed her husband’s father, but she went on complaining to him about the difficulties they have in making a living and making ends meet, and that they do not have enough food and are in need.

Ibrahim (pbuh) left before the return of Ismail (pbuh) from his travels, but he left him a message with his wife saying: “Change your door step”. When Ismail (pbuh) returned, his wife gave him the message, which he told her to have meant that his father is telling him to divorce her, which he did.

Ismail (pbuh) remarried, and after some time Ibrahim (pbuh) travelled to visit his son Ismail peace upon them, and again Ismail was travelling away. Ismail’s wife welcomed her husband’s father. When he asked her about their life, she thanked Allah for having all they need, and for plenty of provisions. Ibrahim (pbuh) peace upon him left before the return of his son peace upon him and left him a message saying: “Fix your door step firmly”. When Ismail (pbuh) returned and his wife told him about his father’s visit and the message he left for him, he told her that the message meant for him to hang on tight to her and not let her go.

Ismail peace upon him lived in Makah, had a number of children and his children and their offspring spread throughout the Arabian Peninsula and beyond. Of his offspring was a man called Abd Allah who had one child son called Mohamed (pbuh) the son of Abd Allah.

Scimi

Thanks for your response.

They are Prophets and can make perfect decisions, although we have examples in Prophets life but we are also not perfect and had lots of bad things which our wife might not also like, so how can we put that situation in ours?

Secondly, What I know there is huge difference between my wife and my life but that what i always see, there is huge difference between the likes and dislikes of my mother and father, my sister and my sister husband, my brother and my brother wife, not two persons can have same likes

Now , what i want that despite getting too much heart with my wife, i want him to recongnize what she had done wrong and ask forgiveness from me and my parents and I am hopefull that inshahallah every thing will be all right but she is not doing that.

That why i am asking you a wazifa that can un-iced his heart and give him feeling that she is doing something wrong and if she ask forgivness from his heart every thing will be all right other wise my life, my son life and his own life can got lots of damange.

Can i recite this wazifa, http://www.wazifas.com/to-bring-back-a-run-away.php will these types of wazifas work.

Bro, my best advice is to do istikhara - and especially in these final nights of Ramadhan... stay in sujood for a long time, and really engage in the sincerest worship of Allah.

Allah never abandons HIS slaves in their hour of need.

With regard to the wazifah you have found, I see no harm in it. Innalillahi Wa'inna ialihi ra'ji'oon... This is our ultimate destination. This is also recited when something near and dear is lost, like a loved one - to death, or an item of importance.

Please bro, do istikhara.

Scimi

this wizifa has any proof from Quran or hadith ? Prophet pbuh taught this to anyone ? I don't think so .

As already suggested , offer Istekhara salat and take the decision .

What I understand is when daugther's parent shout at son in laws parent , there is almost no hope for a happy married life for the couple. Specailly when they live in a joint family.

And Allah Knows Best.

you are right, truely speaking due to too much tension I am not able to pray properly. I feel too much lonely that I cannot expalain.

Yes, istagarah is good things but what can i do with my heart, how can i control its feeling. I love my wife and want him back, ofcourse if Allah does not want we can do nothing, but Allah has given us power and ask us to do try to the best and leave every thing on Allah.

I just want to try to my level best. And I have trust on Allah despite even all the world is against me if Allah wants he will drive a way for me. Allah is so kind and merciful.

Please do pray for me.

Bro, when you do istikhara, and it is answered, the heart becomes firm... try it bro.

If she is no good for you, then the love will simply cease to exist - you will feel indifference and so will she, and if it is meant that you are good together, then understanding will increase in your heart and hers too.

When you make istikhara, ask Allah to make your heart firm in whatever matter HE has decreed for you and for her also.

Scimi

peaceandlove said:

Asalam o Alikum

Few days later my wife has left my home along with my small baby, we had been marriage around more then 1 year , and that round 3rd time he done this, by lefting home.

I had tried every thing to keep him please, even more then what i can do, In term of money and facilitation i had stoped every thing for me but give him good money and facilities.

But, this time she had also done very very wrong thing not only with me but also with my family too. and the tension is now between families not alone me an my wife.

Still, I love him with my heart and donot want to leave him. I always teaches him calmly about the thing shes is doing wrong, ofcourse there are few thing which my wife donot like in me and I had tried to change what ever i can, but my wife does not want to change him.

What i understand after coming to our house she still want that all the custom which she do in his own house can be done here and ofcourse every family has its own way of living, even her parent came and fight with me (tons of times, i always reply them politely but have deep pain in my mind that what my wife is doing with me, bringing his parents to shout on me for thing between wife and me) and also they shout on my parents too many many time. Ofcourse no body like that for small things like going outside and small things,

What i understand they want their daughter to be totally independent but we live in joint family system and i cannot move as i cannot afford to live alone.

I still love my wife after getting tooooo much pain from him with my heart and donot want to leave him , my family does not want to bring him back as she is doing too much bad thing with all of us.

I want that my wife accept his mistakes and excuse all of us and bring back and leave all bad things , is there any wazifa I can recite? I am not alone in the house so its not possible for me to do any wazifa that can be get notice by my family and i donot want to let know my family that i am doing wazifa?

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My brother all you can do is try your best with your wife which you have done. If she is not willing to see sense and she is causing this much grief then firstly you should give her space for a little while so that she thinks things through. Giver her time and maybe she will see sense. In the meantime beg of Allah and ask of him to make her see sense and for her heart to become softer towards you and your family. After that if things still remain the same then you can try and get an outside mediator or an elder and respected member of the family to mediate matters between you. At the same time continue to make sincere Dua. After that all you can do is to inform a learned and reliable ascholar who has experience in these matters to advise you further and you should act upon his advice.

Do not over rely on wazifas. You can only do the best you can in your situation and what we have to realise is that in such situations if after trying everything possible to resolve the matter and things still do not get any better then it is far better to leave such a person. Obviously you love her as she is the mother of your children but if you have tried everything and she is still not willing to see sense then surely it will be better to live apart and seperate from one another. Not every person we marry is best for us in life. Sometimes things do not turn out how we want and we only find out after marriage. You said it yourself you are incompatible and she is very stubborn win that she does not want to change and she wants to be too independant.

So take all the steps mentioned and ask of Allah and beg of him to help you with this situation and after that put your full trust and faith in Allah that whatever happens will happen for the best. If you do end up remaining together then that was for the best but if you do not then that is for the best and you were not meant to remain together. So rather than rely on wazifas put your full faith, trust, hopes and reliance in Allah and know that he will do what is best for you.

May Allah do what is best for you regarding your situation. Ameen