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    Asalam Walaikum.

    I can’t come up with a proper title, but I wanted to come here to express that I am disappointed in the people around me. I don’t bother anyone, I suffer a little from social anxiety issues so I’m pretty much reserved, but I don’t have problems talking with people though. I did remember that I made a thread long ago about being bullied in school, and I will find a way to report the situation. Sometimes, most students will see me and try to avoid me. Besides bullying, even when I’m at home my parents, specifically my dad, is always try to push my buttons and bother me. Sometimes I play ruqya to calm the mood and to get rid of negative energy. It does work from time to time, but I feel like this is a deeper problem. I have a feeling that it’s probably because of jinn, cause sometimes I can probably see from the corner of my eye that there’s something lurking and whenever that happens, that’s when people start acting different. or being distant. I wanted to ask is this due to the cause of jinn/black magic?
    Thank you.

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    Re: Why do people keep bothering me?

    Quote Originally Posted by Highspirits19 View Post
    Asalam Walaikum.

    I can’t come up with a proper title, but I wanted to come here to express that I am disappointed in the people around me. I don’t bother anyone, I suffer a little from social anxiety issues so I’m pretty much reserved, but I don’t have problems talking with people though. I did remember that I made a thread long ago about being bullied in school, and I will find a way to report the situation. Sometimes, most students will see me and try to avoid me. Besides bullying, even when I’m at home my parents, specifically my dad, is always try to push my buttons and bother me. Sometimes I play ruqya to calm the mood and to get rid of negative energy. It does work from time to time, but I feel like this is a deeper problem. I have a feeling that it’s probably because of jinn, cause sometimes I can probably see from the corner of my eye that there’s something lurking and whenever that happens, that’s when people start acting different. or being distant. I wanted to ask is this due to the cause of jinn/black magic?
    Thank you.
    Assalam o alaikum rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

    May Allah heal you. For there is no cure except His cure.

    You can try to visit doctor. In sha Allah it will be helpful.

    I could be wrong, Allah knows best.

    It could be paranoid maybe. You can visit doctor.

    Allah knows best

    JazakAllah khair
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    Re: Why do people keep bothering me?

    Quote Originally Posted by Highspirits19 View Post
    Asalam Walaikum.

    I can’t come up with a proper title, but I wanted to come here to express that I am disappointed in the people around me. I don’t bother anyone, I suffer a little from social anxiety issues so I’m pretty much reserved, but I don’t have problems talking with people though. I did remember that I made a thread long ago about being bullied in school, and I will find a way to report the situation. Sometimes, most students will see me and try to avoid me. Besides bullying, even when I’m at home my parents, specifically my dad, is always try to push my buttons and bother me. Sometimes I play ruqya to calm the mood and to get rid of negative energy. It does work from time to time, but I feel like this is a deeper problem. I have a feeling that it’s probably because of jinn, cause sometimes I can probably see from the corner of my eye that there’s something lurking and whenever that happens, that’s when people start acting different. or being distant. I wanted to ask is this due to the cause of jinn/black magic?
    Thank you.
    Most people can be notorious. You can be all to yourself and they will do something to trigger you. I have been there. They just cannot see someone at peace with themselves. They love to cause drama.


    You just have to develop yourself so you do not care what they say. We are constantly developing skills aren't we? We go to school to develop skills. Then, we go to University to develop skills. Develop the skill where you do not have an emotional response whether inward or outward to what people say.

    Ask yourself this: When you walk on the road and a dog in someones house barks at you what do you do? You just walk away and do not let it bother you.

    Apply the same to people.

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    Re: Why do people keep bothering me?

    Quote Originally Posted by ZeeshanParvez View Post
    Most people can be notorious. You can be all to yourself and they will do something to trigger you. I have been there. They just cannot see someone at peace with themselves. They love to cause drama.


    You just have to develop yourself so you do not care what they say. We are constantly developing skills aren't we? We go to school to develop skills. Then, we go to University to develop skills. Develop the skill where you do not have an emotional response whether inward or outward to what people say.

    Ask yourself this: When you walk on the road and a dog in someones house barks at you what do you do? You just walk away and do not let it bother you.

    Apply the same to people.
    You are right! I will take that advice and ignore these people. Thank you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by taha_ View Post
    Assalam o alaikum rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

    May Allah heal you. For there is no cure except His cure.

    You can try to visit doctor. In sha Allah it will be helpful.

    I could be wrong, Allah knows best.

    It could be paranoid maybe. You can visit doctor.

    Allah knows best

    JazakAllah khair
    I do agree that I may be a little paranoid.


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