Assalam o Alaikum rahamutullahi wa barkauthu.
This is matter of the unseen. death cannot be predicited. only Allah knows who will die and what land they will meet their fate.
Kindly ask your dad that combining prayers without excuses is not allowed, and that you must pray 5 prayers.
Islam is only accepted religion now. Non muslims who have heard about islam but died without saying "There is no god but Allah and Muhammad is His Messenger" are given no excuses. they're doomed. Allah says in Quran
Sahih International: And whoever desires other than Islam as religion - never will it be accepted from him, and he, in the Hereafter, will be among the losers. (3:85)
I suggest that you can try to tell them that Islam is that there is no god but Allah, who is One and Only without partner, to pray 5 prayers, fasting, performing Hajj once in lifetime and to give zakat. and if they know this then. tell them more about islam with knowledge, which Allah has given you
But we Muslims don't guide anyone instead we convey the message of Islam, it is Allah Who guides whoever He wills. so ask Him sincrely to guide your christian friends. also you should not be friends with non mahram girls, no matter how strong your iman is. door to fitnah could be opened easily. A man and non mahram woman without guardian are not alone, shaitan is with them.
Al-Nawawi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:
This shows that whoever dies in a state of kufr will be in Hell. And being related to one who is close to Allaah will not avail him anything. It also shows that whoever died during the fatrah (the interval between the Prophethood of ‘Eesa (peace be upon him) and that of Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)) and was the follower of the way of the Arabs at that time, which was idol worship, will also be among the people of Hell. There is no excuse for the call not reaching them, because the call of Ibraaheem and other Prophets (peace be upon them) had reached these people.
Allah knows best about your ancestors... It is better to leave them to be judged by Allah.
One thing. we should be more concerned about our deeds. Will our hereafter be succuessful or doomed? Will Allah forgive us? We have to focus on obeying Allah and His messenger. We don't know what will happen to us.
Allah is Al-Wadud (Most Loving) He cares for us even though most of us are ungrateful to Him. We need Him, He does not need us anyways. I would look at His Face and speak to Him directly, isn't that greatest feeling? Seeing the Face of Creator or our forefathers?
Our wives, children, parents, best friends leave us, but our Creator will never leave us. Allah is Most Merciful and Most Loving.
Allah knows best.
jazakAllah khair
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