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    Salam..

    I'm quite young and my mum treats me inequally. She treats my brothers like royalty and whenever they do something wrong she doesn't shout at them as much as she shouts at me. I'm the eldest in my family and I have another little sister but she just swears at me and shouts at me so much and when it comes to my brothers she never ever sees them in the wrong. It upsets me so much because in Islam boys and girls are supposed to be treated equally. The other day she made a comment like "Boys are more important than girls, so my sons come first." That made me so upset I was in tears, its not fair. All i can do is pray to Allah and I really do try to make her happy but we always end up arguing and me in tears. I feel like I'm adopted and my mums mind is so backwards.. What should I do? Please help..

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    format_quote Originally Posted by MusLiM 4 LiFe View Post
    umm sis cn i juz correct u a lil there is no hadith dat says "paradise is under ur mothers feet" its juz like a sayin.. a gud sayin

    n i agree its all culture.. n stupidity..

    “Be at your mother’s feet and there is the Paradise.” (Ibn Majah, Sunan, Hadith no. 2771)
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    Re: Treated Inequally

    format_quote Originally Posted by sister-aisha View Post

    “Be at your mother’s feet and there is the Paradise.” (Ibn Majah, Sunan, Hadith no. 2771)
    oohh well.. sheikh yusuf sed in 1 of his lectures dat it woz juz an old sayin.. oki weird :S
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    Re: Treated Inequally

    oki random buh sis whtz wid u n all ur ghetto style.. b4 i left u werent like dis.. hm.. :S
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