I think the original post was a joke, the thread has gone off-topic but I still want to say some things here. Pardon my harsh tone, know that I mean no harm and I am not talking to one specific person but to all. You sister Sahabiyaat, just happened to mention some things which I hear over and over again.
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Sahabiyaat
males complain that we have alot of bad qualities, like nagging them, and talking too much...
come to think of it even the quraan tells man to overlook his wifes faults but says nothing about the mans faults..
Woman complain men have lots of bad qualities too! I like to think humans have bad qualities, man or woman.
I think it does come through that it's two-sided, that you overlook eachother's fault/s, not only wife and husband, but fellow Muslims etc. You also have to think in which time/situation that verse was revealed or hadith and understand, nothing is always understood literally.
that and were going to be the majority of hell
:cry: are we really that bad..
Listen, it's ridiculous and pathetic to sit and wonder if our sex organs makes us good or bad, stupid or smart. In almost everything in life, striving is involved. You strive to become a good person or a better, you strive for good grades, you strive to find peace, etc. Few are born perfect, or even close. We aren't what we are just 'cause our sex organ says it, but also mentally, other physical factors, where we are in life, our hardships, what we aspire...
Why bloody wonder if women are the majority in hell, you should just hope
you ain't there, woman or man, kid or adult! I seriously am over the "woman are the majority", there are said things which will help us
not to go to Hell and as a matter of fact, no where does it say "You have to be a man to eneter Paradise; check?"
And as a matter of fact, that has been discussed in some thread here on LI, for example, I think you should research some more if you want the answer from the Internet, for example in the Sisters' section here on LI, it has been discussed and few were left despaired after reading those threads.