ashley66
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My dear friends
,
Please give me some advise. Have I overstepped my line. Am I right or wrong?
For months I have this huge burden on my mind and today I could no longer bear it. My office has one panel clinic and new staff are sent there for medical checkup before they are confirmed. The clinic usually ask the staff to strip naked saying that it is a procedure. Most of them are not comfortable with it but many didn't know their right as individual to refuse. Many thought that if they don't strip, they may fail the chekup and may not get the job. Sounds naive but it is true. Embarrasing situation, no one talk about it.
Why am I so nosy? Because I know since I was asked the same but I walked out. Imagine if the new staff are your daugther/niece/best friends or someone close, I don't want this to happen to them, same way I don't want this to happen to anyone unless they don't mind. For 7 years since 2001, I alerted my boss on this issue 3 times and nothing. But luckily office did not employ many new staff until 2007 and now. 2007 till now many new staff emplyed and many underwent the same, some are lucky the doctor didn't asked them to strip.
Last week an assistant was employed for me. I warned him about the med checkup. But I didn't warned others who are not working on my floor. because, it is embarrassing even for me to talk about it. My assistant was sent to the same clinic and that hit the ceiling for me. First thing today I walked to my boss and informed that I'm writing a complaint to the Malaysian Medical councill to logde a formal complain and I would have to say the name of the office I'm working and the clinic's name else, my letter would not be considered authentic.
Just now, my boss got angry and he called for a meeting with the latest staff member and myself to sit in. Nobody dare open their mouth to support my move except for one fresh graduate girl. Others including my muslim boss say they don't mind. From the disgust look from my boss and his management staff, I know my job is at stake. I'm doing this for Allah because I'm trying to protect my fellow muslim and non muslim even if they don't know it.
I'm shivering as I type this because I'm still shocked, sad and scared since came back from the meeting. I wonder if the new staff think I'm a nut case.
Regards and
Umi Salmah

Please give me some advise. Have I overstepped my line. Am I right or wrong?
For months I have this huge burden on my mind and today I could no longer bear it. My office has one panel clinic and new staff are sent there for medical checkup before they are confirmed. The clinic usually ask the staff to strip naked saying that it is a procedure. Most of them are not comfortable with it but many didn't know their right as individual to refuse. Many thought that if they don't strip, they may fail the chekup and may not get the job. Sounds naive but it is true. Embarrasing situation, no one talk about it.
Why am I so nosy? Because I know since I was asked the same but I walked out. Imagine if the new staff are your daugther/niece/best friends or someone close, I don't want this to happen to them, same way I don't want this to happen to anyone unless they don't mind. For 7 years since 2001, I alerted my boss on this issue 3 times and nothing. But luckily office did not employ many new staff until 2007 and now. 2007 till now many new staff emplyed and many underwent the same, some are lucky the doctor didn't asked them to strip.
Last week an assistant was employed for me. I warned him about the med checkup. But I didn't warned others who are not working on my floor. because, it is embarrassing even for me to talk about it. My assistant was sent to the same clinic and that hit the ceiling for me. First thing today I walked to my boss and informed that I'm writing a complaint to the Malaysian Medical councill to logde a formal complain and I would have to say the name of the office I'm working and the clinic's name else, my letter would not be considered authentic.
Just now, my boss got angry and he called for a meeting with the latest staff member and myself to sit in. Nobody dare open their mouth to support my move except for one fresh graduate girl. Others including my muslim boss say they don't mind. From the disgust look from my boss and his management staff, I know my job is at stake. I'm doing this for Allah because I'm trying to protect my fellow muslim and non muslim even if they don't know it.
I'm shivering as I type this because I'm still shocked, sad and scared since came back from the meeting. I wonder if the new staff think I'm a nut case.
Regards and

Umi Salmah