obsessed about marriage?

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in the name of allah the most merciful the most kind

may allahs peace be upon you

subhanallah i am noticing so many people are into marriage threads in this forum. inshallah just chill-when your time will come it will come. worship allah and try to become close to him and love him then you will see how much contentment you acquire

allah hafiz
 
AssalamuAlaykum

Lol! ;D

If you notice my dear sis, most of the threads are advice and/or stories. Something to take lessons from. No need to limit our knowledge.

WassalamuAlaykum
 
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^ yeah ditto...:)

Saimah Ali said:
worship allah and try to become close to him and love him then you will see how much contentment you acquire
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but you can still be content, etc when your married...and theres nothing wrong with talking about marriage...as long as its got its limits, which i think it does here, alhamdulillah :)

and no offense, but i dont get it how people think that the only way you can worship allah properly is by remaining single *scratches head* :)

that wasnt directed at you sis just speaking in general...pls forgive if ive said anything wrong :-[

EDIT: and no, i am NOT obsessed about marriage :'(
 
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;D

i'm thinking about this one group of members... hmmm...

lol again.
 
huh?


i dont see anyone over-obsessive about marriage
i do see people eager to get married here

and to be honest, id be worried if they werent :uuh:
 
Saimah Ali said:
in the name of allah the most merciful the most kind

may allahs peace be upon you

subhanallah i am noticing so many people are into marriage threads in this forum. inshallah just chill-when your time will come it will come. worship allah and try to become close to him and love him then you will see how much contentment you acquire

allah hafiz
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Marriage is a good thing, sis.
So long as we are not bringing haraam into the discussions it should be fine.
 
Saimah Ali said:
in the name of allah the most merciful the most kind

may allahs peace be upon you

subhanallah i am noticing so many people are into marriage threads in this forum. inshallah just chill-when your time will come it will come. worship allah and try to become close to him and love him then you will see how much contentment you acquire

allah hafiz
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Wa 'alaykumus-Salam wa rahmatullah.

Marriage is completing a half of iman. It's Sunnah and a way to worship Allah too.

Allah Hafiz too!
 
age doesnt matter subhanallah in islam you can be practiscing in any age. what i wanted to say basically if you didnt get it from my first post is that leave everything up to allah we plan but allah is the best of planners subhanallah i dont understand why muslims do this
 
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Yeh you're right that some things we leave to Allah (swt) but that doesnt mean we shouldnt exert efforts to get to something we want. Bi'ithnillah.

WassalamuAlaykum
 
From RoseGold's post, I thought she was asking your age to identify whether or not your at the age where you wouldn't be thinking about marriage. I don't think the sister meant to offend or imply that you weren't knowledgable.
Fair enough there are loads of threads about marriage lately. Maybe it's because people just want general advice? I don't know.
Please don't take offence at what I've written.
 
I agree with the others.
And yes, you are right, we should let Allah deal with it, but there's nothing bad about talking about marriage.. And, plus, I've seen a couple of Muslim sisters write that they didn't even want to get married =P
 
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From RoseGold's post, I thought she was asking your age to identify whether or not your at the age where you wouldn't be thinking about marriage. I don't think the sister meant to offend or imply that you weren't knowledgable.
Fair enough there are loads of threads about marriage lately. Maybe it's because people just want general advice? I don't know.
Please don't take offence at what I've written.
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Exactly :) I'm only 17 myself, yet parents helping me to find a husband inshAllah. Hisham al-awadi said a good thing at the Jimas conference a couple of yrs ago; get married young then you go through more milestones together with your spouse. Nothing wrong with wanting to marry early :)
 
the time will come for all of us just make dua...and those that say we are obsessed should know that the wait is excruciating ...so take it easy on us
 

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