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[Ummu Sufyaan]

:sl:

No, only excessive InterGender PMs are monitored. There have been quite some instances in the past, and continue still, that prompt us to do a check every now and then.

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please make them more thorough...what happens if the brother (or sister) ask for an email/MSN address through that one PM :exhausted?

[Muhammad]

Wa Alaykum Assalaam,

Jazakallaahu khayran for the concern. You are right - that is always the danger. Ultimately it is Allaah (swt) that we must all fear, for He is the One that knows all that happens whether in public or secret. The rest of us can only remind and do so much.

[Re.TiReD]

:sl:
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please make them more thorough...what happens if the brother (or sister) ask for an email/MSN address through that one PM :exhausted?

:wasalamex

Sis...erm. I think we both have the same thing in mind.

The best we can do is warn and educate the younger sisters in the sisters room and just ignore as best you can if it happens.

WassalamuAlaykum

[Yanal]

Asalam Alaykum Warakmatulah Wabarkatuh
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[Woodrow]

Sister Ramlah is a Sister according to her profile.

[Ummu Sufyaan]

:sl:

:wasalamex

Sis...erm. I think we both have the same thing in mind.

The best we can do is warn and educate the younger sisters in the sisters room and just ignore as best you can if it happens.

WassalamuAlaykum

lol yh thats a good idea...educate our sisters. why the heck didnt i think of it :p

but nah i thought i should post in the main too just so that if anyone thinks of anything fishy, they can get lost! :D

[Muhammad]

:sl:

If you get any such PMs or know of a situation, you should contact an Admin so that they can investigate and warn the members involved to refrain from abusing the PM facility.

[Ummu Sufyaan]

:sl:
^ok will do then, inshallah. barakallahu feek.

[Re.TiReD]

:sl:


lol yh thats a good idea...educate our sisters. why the heck didnt i think of it :p

:wasalamex

Thread made in sisters room alhamdulillah :)

[Ansariyah]

I don't see wats the big deal..If u don't like it tell the bro. I'm sure no brother will keep asking again n again..

[Cabdullahi]

i think some of us brother have taken things alittle too far and im going to put myself in the firing line and say ive been a ''mild'' perpetrator,but inshallah we will focus and mend our many irregularities

[Re.TiReD]

Can I just say that this isnt a diss at all brothers. Its just that we wanna keep the little ones safe.

And sis yanoorah, read the threads in sisters insha'Allah, you'd be surprised at how many persist.

[Ansariyah]

I see..Well they shouldn't persist. There is really no point! No means NO!

[aminahjaan]

Yeah this is a good reminder Masha'Allah, It's kind of surprising though. And Insha'Allah no one gets sucked into doing that.

But it's kind of funny and weird at the same time "Hey let's hook up over Islamic board"
hahahaha

[Yanal]

Whats this about? Gender fighting or something:?:

[BlissfullyJaded]

:sl:

No, it's not rather them persisting with one sister again and again, but from what I've known they just PM several sisters hoping somebody will fall for the bait. As stated earlier, contact an admin and they'll sort it out inshaAllah.

[Yanal]

:w:
For what... Are they trolls or spammers?

[Ummu Sufyaan]

I don't see wats the big deal..If u don't like it tell the bro. I'm sure no brother will keep asking again n again..

yh but i wanted to start a thread in public to let those who are thinking anything "fishy," will hopefully know that the member's/admins are on to them :)

For what... Are they trolls or spammers?

nopes, just err...weirdos :p

[Yanal]

like me...? Perhaps Alpha:D

[Re.TiReD]

like me...? Perhaps Alpha:D

Not at all.

Nothing for you to worry about bro.

[Yanal]

good.

[Amat Allah]

may Allah guide us and them all Ameeeeeeeeeeen

[Muhammad]

:sl:

The following thread is a good reminder for this topic:

http://www.islamicboard.com/manners-...uidelines.html

[جوري]

:haha: you gals get propositioned by PM, and I always seem to get hate mail and death threats er I mean 'hell threats'

Some of the sisters here do a very wise thing which is put restrictions on whom they can receive PM messages from.. something to consider, as the old Egyptian adage goes..
'The door that brings you considerable forceful wind -- close it and relax!'

and Allah swt knows best

:w:

[Pk_#2]

Whats this about? Gender fighting or something:?:

Yeah..:hmm:

Get out of the thread Yanal, ur too little to view this. I like how u changed ur name to Abu Sayyad on T. :ooh:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5RyaA1ArJxg