format_quote Originally Posted by
Paper
Hello, I have always been interested in Muslim societies, especially Saudi Arabia, because of the huge differences in comparison to western societies.
I am trying to understand the rules from the perspective of a Saudi living in an Islamic country. I have a list of questions, but I won't ask all at once as some other questions may be answered in the process.
I was wondering why in some of these countries women aren't allowed to drive. I asked my Saudi friend this and he suggested the majority think that women aren't equal and that it was because the majority didn't like the idea of women drivers. He went on to say women would be harassed by men, which would incite religious violations, and so avoidance of these was the main priority. But if this is the only reason, then surely each person within that majority could realise that if the rest of the majority didn't become angry by women drivers, then the problem wouldn't exist in the first place. I am struggling to understand why women shouldn't be treated equally like men. My Saudi friend suggested that I was comparing apples and oranges, but as I see it I am comparing red apples and green apples - to me they only seem mildly different, the differences balancing each other.
Secondly I was wondering about these societies' reaction to the presence of homosexuality. Personally I am indifferent to homosexual persons, and there is a general tolerance of it within western society since it tends to only concern the individuals. Again I asked my Saudi friend, he suggested it was a choice that invoked sin as explained by the Quran. But this doesn't seem right in my mind, why on earth would any sane human being actually make a conscious choice to be homosexual in a Muslim society knowing full well it means rejection, punishment and even death?! Also, homosexuality among animals has been documented, right down to gut worms. Gut worms can't possibly make a conscious choice to be gay! It seems completely counter logical. Either gay people are sane and have no choice or completely insane, in which case what is the purpose of punishing these individuals?
Thanks for reading, I really want to understand how a Muslim sees it
i happen to disagree with the saudi ban on women drivers as it causes more problems with women needing to employ male drivers or go alone in taxis.
your saudi friend if you have reported his views correctly has not explained things very well to you. in islam men and women are equal, but different.
let me explain, are men and women the same physically? no, men are stronger, women however can take more pain than men, if a man was to have to give birth he might well die. men and women are made different physically.
mentally, men and women are different. no matter what western social scientists do they cannot seem to engineer society to get rid of these differences. so women almost always do better at social sciences and men at the more traditional sciences. men are better at maths, women at english.
emotionally, men and women are different and made up for very different roles, women are there to run family and help make society run smoothly, men on the other hand are leaders of the family.
so physically, mentally, emotionally the men and women are different. now if they are so different wouldnt imposing the same rights and responsibilites be an injustice upon them?
for example, in islam the man is the provider, the woman can work if she chooses in a halal environment for but whatever she earns is her own, but whatever the man earns must be spent to support his family.
if you look at this one islamic ruling above you would think islam is unjust to men, however islam is a perfect system in balance with our human nature as your creator knows us best.
so when you say islam is unjust to women what you are doing is looking at a small number of rulings and drawing your conclusion without looking at the whole picture.
men and women are however spiritually equal, and in their rights and responsibilities they balance each other out, different but equal.
now regarding homosexuality, you say you are indifferent but i've got two words to prove your not...
'bum tampax'
that is what old soddomites have to wear as there bodies are not designed to do such disgusting practices, square pegs being put in round holes to take it back to simple terms.
are you still indifferent? i doubt it.
but this is not the main reason we are against it, we are against it as it is against the laws of our creator, he decides for us what is good and what is bad.