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Firstly, this is a no debate zone. If any anti-islamists overtake, i’ll show you what a bad side is all about!

Amma ba3ad (to proceed):
I am trying to figure out something.

In the verse it says that men are allowed to “hit” their wives in order to discipline them.

from the brothers, I want to know- what if it were the other way around and the girl had the authority to hit you? What affect would that have on you?
Forget your ego for a second, I mean in your nature, how would a man react to that? Would he become even more stubborn, or :?
 
wow this totally is one of those totally hypothetical questions.
Howd you think these things up? :p
 
Bro we shouldnt play around with the 'What if'

The Shariah is perfect the way it is. This is like saying 'If you was allowed to shout at your parents what would you complain about?'


Hope you understand what i mean Inshallah
 
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I'd do everything in my power to prevent her from ever wanting to hit me (make her waffles in the morning, tell her she looks thin even though she looks fat, clean the toilet after I use it etc). Do you know how embarassing it is for a girl to hit a boy? It's like getting a cooty-shot in the shape of a fist with enough power to make your bladder burst.

It's that bad!
 
^ what?

but i have sisters, and they do hit me when frustrated at me

and all it does is make me laugh

quite a lot
 
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I will feel terrible especially if it's around my parents and/or relatives. I will mostly do the same as brother aamirsaab like making parathas and changing the babies diaper.... It's really embarassing,if we get slap we stand where we are but on the other hand if we slap girls they cry and run away...
 
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nice question sis.

Im pretty sure sister Umm ul-Shaheed is knowledgable,and know the reason behind th question.Im sure theres wisdom behind it so brothers please answer the question in a mature manner InshALLAH

answer away!
 
i would definately spar back with her, in a jokey kind of way,
I do it with kids now, i cant wait to get married lol


i,l be like blud, what you doin
 
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Maybe sisters can give opinions if their husbands slap you.
 
Alpha Jr said:
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Maybe sisters can give opinions if their husbands slap you.
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seriously?

ok it depends. on why and how.

The ayah does not give green light to men to beat their wives ever. or even to use in light stuff. there are guidelines and it is only the last resort.
so possible reaction, to be honest Allah knows best:blind:
 
i think it depends on the situation entirely


if i did something horrificly wrong

and i KNOW its soooo wrong

and she hit me.. i'd probably wake up n think "yaaa... how cud i?" n feel ashamed

if however, she just gets angry, and hits me out of anger..

i will do as i stated above
 
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^I said sisters ,which means your a sister? You already replied bro.....
 
nightstar said:
i would definately spar back with her, in a jokey kind of way,
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wait are we talking about if a woman/man hits their spouse in an
'omg ur so mean *smack*' (but not serious) kind of way or abusive kind of way???
 

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