100 Premarital Questions to Download

[Iva]

I came across an Islamic parenting website that has this to download for your kids who are getting married. They also have other stuff to download such as daily dua's, worksheets for kids etc.

http://islam4parents.com/2009/03/100...tting-married/

[Rabi'ya]

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alhamdulillah very helpful. More like a job interview and very daunting!! Any potential partner for my daughter better look out!!! Ive got approx 14-16 years to perfect my question asking lol

[Strzelecki]

This site is already in my favorites for insha'Allah future reference.

<3

JazakhAllahu kheyran.

[جوري]

I thought some of those questions were inappropriate no?

for instance:

43. After marriage, do you think that you are one to express romantic feelings verbally?

44. After marriage, do you think that you want to express affection in public?


68. How do you spend money?

72. Do you use credit cards?

and especially
83. Do you want to have children in the first two years of marriage? If not, when?


some of these are certainly not in law questions, what is this a job interview or a union between two souls?

I think most of these questions should be between the spouses not the potential and the parents...

Do you plan to show affection for my daughter verbally, I mean how creepy is that?

some were useful and appropriate but some of these were completely inappropriate to be asked of a potential husband or wife in my humble opinion ....

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[Yanal]

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The last Q should be "What benefits can you give my daughter that my husband has not provided to me ?

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