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Before a person can change, their hearts have to become soft, hardened hearts cannot submit to the Creator, or carry out His orders.
You need to introduce the basic descriptions of Jannah and Jahannam to your sister, describe the beauty of Jannah and the terrors of Jahannam.
Depending on whether she is a reader or a listener, you need to give her articles/mp3 lectures on this topic.
Gradually, she will InshaAllaah start desiring Jannah and fearing Jahannam - only then will she understand the haraam and halal in Islam, only then will she understand her obligatory duties towards Allaah.
| MP3 Lecture (Anwar Al Awlaki) - Jannah Part 1 |
| MP3 Lecture (Anwar Al Awlaki) - Jannah Part 2 |
Start off with Jannah InshaAllaah....because if you scare a person off with Jahannam then its harder for them to listen to what you have to say.... (thats what I've found with most people anyway).
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This is the best lecture I have come across on praying - it has the basic three things in it - the reward for praying, the punishment for not praying, and the practical ways in wich we can be steadfast in our prayers;
| Time to establish prayer (MP3) |
Or if she prefers reading;
| Time to establish prayer (Transcript) |
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"O you who believe! Save yourselves and your families from a Fire (Hell) whose fuel is men and stones, over which are (appointed) angels stern (and) severe, who do not disobey the Commands they receive from Allah, but do that which they are commanded." [Qur'aan, Chapter 66, Verse 6]
Sheikh Feiz spends four lessons explaining in detail the Hellfire.
| Track 1 |
| Track 2 |
| Track 3 |
| Track 4 |
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And this is the most important video, the heart softener, in my case....many many hearts can be melted through this video...
A Meeting With Allah
Click here for the video
Linkto the text if you need to give that to your sister instead
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I hope I was of some help, please remember me in your prayers InshaAllaah.
Your sister in Islaam