Men desire for more than one woman

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Do you think all of the men desire more than one woman

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i just heard from some of the nicest men...that not all man desire for more than one woman. some of them think one good woman is enough for them.

So i thought of putting up a poll...

Need everyone cooperation.

Jazakallah khayr in advance
 
I'm an 18 year old male. I like girls and desire them here and there. I'm not however crazy for girls.
 
syilla said:
:salamext:

i just heard from some of the nicest men...that not all man desire for more than one woman. some of them think one good woman is enough for them.

So i thought of putting up a poll...

Need everyone cooperation.

Jazakallah khayr in advance
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I really wouldn't want more than one wife.
 
I think most of men want only one wife,few men like to have more but not all of them,despite of being allowed in Islam to marry more than one most muslim men marry only one woman ,they marry another one only if his first wife is ill or unfruitful so they prefer marring another to divorce the first.
 
Syilla, I'm afraid I am not clear what your poll is asking about.

When you say 'one good woman is enough for them', it sounds like you are talking about men looking for one wife vs looking for more than one wife.

When you say '[men] who only look only at the one [they] love' it sounds like you are talking about men who still look at other women and have desires for other women (even if they don't follow them)

So could you clarify if you mean marriage (monogamous or polygamous), or whether you are talking about men having desires for women in general?
 
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Syilla, I'm afraid I am not clear what your poll is asking about.

When you say 'one good woman is enough for them', it sounds like you are talking about men looking for one wife vs looking for more than one wife.

When you say '[men] who only look only at the one [they] love' it sounds like you are talking about men who still look at other women and have desires for other women (even if they don't follow them)

So could you clarify if you mean marriage (monogamous or polygamous), or whether you are talking about men having desires for women in general?
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i'm talking about men having desires for women in general.

not on polygynous marriage because sometimes they got married for other reasons..
 
Thank you for clarifying, syilla. :)

I think men (at least heterosexual ones) a 'biologically programmed' to desire women, plain and simple.
Even the most faithful husband will look at other women, appraise them and probably be aware of a certain level of physical attraction.
I am not sure if it would be realistic to expect men to do otherwise ...

What we can expect men to do though, is to avoid temptation, to control their desires, and to not ever act upon any desires for other women.

That's my opinion.
 
glo said:
Thank you for clarifying, syilla. :)

I think men (at least heterosexual ones) a 'biologically programmed' to desire women, plain and simple.
Even the most faithful husband will look at other women, appraise them and probably be aware of a certain level of physical attraction.
I am not sure if it would be realistic to expect men to do otherwise ...

What we can expect men to do though, is to avoid temptation, to control their desires, and to not ever act upon any desires for other women.

That's my opinion.
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Thank you for your thoughts :), i really appreciate it :statisfie
 
syilla said:
:salamext:

i just heard from some of the nicest men...that not all man desire for more than one woman. some of them think one good woman is enough for them.

So i thought of putting up a poll...

Need everyone cooperation.

Jazakallah khayr in advance
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I can smell something from facebook here.... lol...
 
Whether men accept it or not, they cannot be satisfied with one woman. They need new everyday as they have more desire than women, which cannot be fulfilled by 1 woman.
 
I voted #3.

My brother says, he only wants to marry one woman and make her his 'everything' and be 'everything' to her.

Ahhhh! lol
 
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I voted #3 too, but it seems that I misunderstood the actual question. I thought the question was, do all men want to be in a polygamous relationship... i.e., have more than one partner. I realise that there are some men out there that don't, whatever the reason may be. But if the question is, do all men desire more than one woman, well that depends on the level of desire we're talking about. I think any married man (and woman) can fall in to temptation. The point is to lower ones gaze, avoid freemixing and dangerous situations, and inshaa'Allaah those kind of scenarios will be avoided.
 
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I'm a woman : they are guys out there who only look only at the one he love
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this is a woman's dream - not actual reality
 
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this is a woman's dream - not actual reality
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That really depends on what that statement means. Islamically, men are supposed to lower the gaze except from their wives and that which their right hand posseses. I'd like to think there are some men out there that are able to carry out this obligation! But, if it means that men consider other women as potential spouses, then that is a different matter entirely.
 
I can only speak for myself so this is what I say,

I think one wife is enough to live an islamic life and attain help in obeying Allah and preventing yourself from his disobedience...

if i was to take another wife, it would be out of taqwa to please Allah such as to have more children... or even to take care of a wife whos not being taken care of properly or in a hard time etc etc

Assalamu Alaikum
 
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this is a woman's dream - not actual reality
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No!

IT IS REALITY!



Me and many others i know are PROOF of that!



hey if we can lower our gaze all the while we're single, its not hard to have eyes for none but the one you love!!!



Assalamu Alaikum
 
It's key to differentiate between one or more woman and desiring one or more women.

Most men would be happy to marry one, but in their younger days probably wanted more than they can handle
 
I think its going to depend on each person individually.
 
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