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curious seeker
Hello :)
I'm brand new. I'm a former Christian... I say "former" because it's only been recently that I've dropped the label. I suppose right now I am "Agnostic"... or a "Seeker" is a better word.
I love God with all my heart. That's why I was a Christian.. but I don't believe in the teachings of Jesus being Divine or the Son of God. I've stayed in Christianity a long, long time because it was a comfortable place to worship God... but I don't fit, because of my beliefs.
Now I am seeking the truth... trying to figure it all out. I know I don't fit into Judaism, because I don't believe in rejecting Jesus completely either (I think he was a great teacher, a prophet sent to us by God) nor do I really believe in God having a "chosen people"...
Welcome to the forum! I was also a former Christian before finding Islam. I have always thought that when I left christianity, I lost Jesus (as), and when I become muslim, I found him again :)
I maintain a list of helpful resources for converts and potential muslism at my blog -
http://umms.wordpress.com/converts/ - you can also contact me through the email link there as well if you want to talk :)
1) Do you believe Allah listens to the prayers of non-Muslims? I don't mean prayers for wants... I mean, if people pray to Allah for the truth, will Allah convict their hearts of the truth, so that they can convert?
Yes! That’s actually something I recommend for seekers to do most often – ask Allah (swt) for guidance, to be shown the straight path. In fact, Allah (swt) is the only one would could bring a person into this religion, so who better to ask than Him?
Surely you cannot guide whom you love, but Allah guides whom He pleases, and He knows best the followers of the right way. (28:56)
2) If people are not quite sure of Islam yet, but are considering it.. should they go through the motions? Prayers to Allah... Hijab for women... etc? Even if they are non-Muslim still? Will this perhaps
help them find the truth, if God sees they are trying, maybe He will help them?
I think reading the Qur’an and the life of the Prophet (saws) are the two biggies. After all, as muslims we believe the Qur’an is Allah (swt)’s words on earth, so what better way to know the religion than to hear it straight from Allah (swt) Himself?
But, Allah (swt) didn’t just chuck a book at us and expect us to figure it out for ourselves. No, He sent us a teacher, the best example of what it means to be a muslim – the Prophet Muhammad (saws). If you read the life of the Prophet (saws) and the Qur’an with an open heart, and see that they are truly God’s message to mankind, and God’s chosen teacher, then that’s the shahada – la ilaha il Allah, Muhammadur rasul Allah – there is nothing worthy of worship except Allah, and Muhammad is His messenger.
3) The 5 daily prayers ... are to be done in Arabic. I understand why, but it raises a question: If a convert is English-speaking... ZERO Arabic, absolutely nothing. In fact they speak no languages other than English, and they suck at learning languages (welcome to my world)... and they have no one close to teach them.
Do they:
a) Do the prayers in English.
b) Read the prayers in Arabic off of a piece of paper (probably slowly and badly, lol)
c) Don't do the prayers at all until you can memorize the Arabic (which could, for English westerners like me, take months, or even years, because we really do suck with Eastern languages)
Which is better?
I am beyond horrible at languages! I’ve tried Spanish, French, Russian and Arabic and failed miserably at all. I still plod along with Arabic, since it’s the language of the Qur’an and I’d love to learn it.
When I converted, a sister sent me a set of cards to learn how to pray. I’ve recreated those cards here -
http://docs.google.com/Doc?docid=0Ac...c2dqcGc1&hl=en
I would stand with the cards in my hand, read the line of Arabic out loud, and then the English silently. After a few weeks (months maybe? I can’t remember back that far, lol), not only did I have the prayers memorized, I also knew what I was saying. For pronunciation, there are quite a few salat programs online that pronounce the words, so you can check your pronunciation against that.
Do everything in your power to learn to pray in Arabic – it’s vital. It’s what enables us to be one brotherhood, one ummah. I can go to a masjid anywhere in the world and know that I will be able to pray with people I can’t communicate with in any other way.
4) Are Western and/or White converts (reverts) to Islam looked down on in any way by other Muslims? I've never had to fear racism in my life being Caucasian, I consider myself lucky obviously, but when I think about Islam, I worry about things like being outcast and not being able to find support in learning and growing in faith.
Thank you for the help!
It depends. White female converts are often held up as pure perfect examples of muslims. We’re soooo much better than born muslims, or so they’re always telling us. But then, there’s always an underpinning of “did she convert for a man, blah blah blah” that shrouds us, even if we converted before we met our future husbands.
In the end, I think the muslim community here in the west is very good at embracing diversity. The masjids I attend are waaay more mixed in terms of race and national origin then any church I’ve ever attended. While you may stick out as a white face (and be used as a mascot), in general I’ve found muslims to be a pretty friendly bunch and will go out of their way to help a convert (maybe not in the way you want or need, but it's the thought that counts ;D )