i don't think they cover the use of video games in the ancient religious texts so it will be up to young muslims like you to develop suitable rules for yourselves and subsequent generations of gamers.
i would recomend Call of Duty 2: Modern Warfare because i think it is an absolutely awesome piece of games design developed with the onus on multi-player participation making it perfect for a games club but i imagine that the subject matter (basically running around shooting people) would be something that your elders dissapprove of.
howabout if you compile a list of games that you would like to play together and then run them by your elders to see which ones they think are ok and which ones they would rather you didn't play.
for the youth of today playing video games together is just like playing sports was for the generations before so i would treat it in a similar way and apply similar rules for participation to the rules you would apply to sports.
one other thing to consider - most video games have bgm (in game music) but you can usually turn it off in the options menus.