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Hanan_x3
I dont see it as sad, ii see it as fair.
Did you read any of the posts above?
Do you think it is unfair of Allah to put in place measures that protect both you and your faith, and that of your children? Those measures sound like mercy from a Most Compassionate Lord to me.
Just bcuz someone said, doesnt mean ill follow it.
Even if Allah said it?
In the Qur'an, Allah says this on the matter: "They [Muslim women] are not lawful to them [the disbelievers] nor are they [the disbelievers] lawful for them." Surah al-Mumtahanah, ayah 10.
After reading the above posts, do you not think that Allah was Most Wise in His decision, knowing human nature better than we do?
Either way, supposing there's a law that says you can't park your car on double yellow lines on the road, but cyclists can. This measure might be in place to prevent congestion by on the road. You might see it as unfair that you can't park your car but cyclists can park their cycles. But just because you personally may see it as unfair, that doesn't make the law wrong. The law is there to protect everyone on the road regardless of what you personally think, even if, for arguments's sake, you either can't understand, can't accept or don't want to accept it.
Sister, please read more on Islam. Allah is not wrong and Islam is not at fault. It seems perhaps you need to develop a deeper understanding of the faith.
Please ask further questions, but in your questions ask what you'd like to know and don't taint Islam with, "xyz is unfair in Islam, why is this?", when it's not Islam that's at fault, but your limited understanding. It may be the case that you "inherited" Islam from your parents without having a proper understanding. That being the case, now is the time to start learning. Don't turn away from Allah just because you don't understand something. Start afresh, make a new connection with Allah, ask Him for guidance, start reading the Qur'an (which is Allah's word to you and all mankind) and Islamic books, and ask questions here. We are happy to accept that there are certain things which Allah, in His Divine Wisdom, knows best. We are all here for you.