Originally Posted by Aisha_
In life, there are two ways. The first way is the way of Allaah, and it leads us to Jannah (Paradise). The second way is the way of shaytaan, and it leads us to Jahannum (Hell-Fire). Know sister, that if today Allaah has given us life, is there any knowing when He might take it away? If today Allaah has hidden our sins, is there any knowing when He might expose them? Know that if Allaah forgives, is there any knowing when He might punish? By Allaah, there is no knowing when He might take our life. There is no knowing when He might expose our sins. There is no knowing, when He might punish us.
Therefore let us fear Allaah and turn to Him.
May Allaah protect us, and Protection comes by keeping within His limitations. May Allaah forgive us, and forgiveness comes by sincerely repenting to Him.
When the Prophet :arabic5: went on the night Journey, he saw men and women who were in a pit of fire screaming. Every time they reached the top, they would fall back in. And he asked Jibreel (a.s) who these people were, and Jibreel (a.s) told him they were those who had haram relationships in this life.
To have a boyfriend is a very serious and major sin, and it has serious and far reaching major consequences, in this life and in the next.
Please let me ask you, who is more dear to you, Allaah and His Messenger :arabic5: or this Boy?
If you cannot leave the brother, then marry him. If you cannot marry him, then leave him. And if you cannot do neither, then we are very concerned and worried for you. Make du'aa to Allaah to help you.
I pray that Allaah guides you and gives you the strength to make the correct decision and keep you firm upon it. Aameen.