school and college sucks

[User_23338]

i hate it, why is it hard?

why did they make it hard and was it necessary to make it hard? why can't every single human being go to school and easily pass and get a degree and get a job? why the heck are they making life harder than it already is?

for the people that are in college, are you people able to get a degree easily without getting frustrated?

because i want to get a degree the easy way not the stupid hard way

btw im in college, but it sucks

and even being PATIENT to make the hardship pass by quicker isn't really gonna make me feel better.

im a pretty impatient person right now.

i just want to get lots of **** money and just get whatever the hell i want.

[PouringRain]

There certainly are colleges that make getting a degree a cakewalk, so you could always look at transferring to one of those. Or...... you could think about how much this degree will mean to you once you have worked hard and earned it as opposed to being handed it. :)

How far along are you in college and what are you looking at earning a degree in? Is it all courses you find difficult or just certain ones? Have you looked into seeing if your school offers tutoring or other services? In some Uni's, if you have a special need, such as ADHD, then you can even apply for special accommodations like extra time to take exams, taking them in isolated rooms (free form distractions), etc. How much do you find yourself studying each week?

[User_23338]

I'm kinda feeling lazy because I just want life to be easy for me and I want no hardships, but if I continue to get hardships with no relief and satisfaction, I hope to god that I will die in my sleep, there is absolutely no point in living in a world full of hardships with hardly any oppurtunity to succeed.

[Woodrow]

i hate it, why is it hard?

why did they make it hard and was it necessary to make it hard? why can't every single human being go to school and easily pass and get a degree and get a job? why the heck are they making life harder than it already is?

for the people that are in college, are you people able to get a degree easily without getting frustrated?

because i want to get a degree the easy way not the stupid hard way

btw im in college, but it sucks

and even being PATIENT to make the hardship pass by quicker isn't really gonna make me feel better.

im a pretty impatient person right now.

i just want to get lots of **** money and just get whatever the hell i want.

:sl:

If the need ever arises that you need cardiac surgery. would it make you comfortable if you knew the cardiologist graduated from a university that did not require any testing or mandatory classes. Everybody passed just by showing up for class.

Better yet how about the next time you board an airplane the pilot graduated from an aviation school that only required the cadets to attend 70% of their classes and did not require any actual solo flight practice.

It is true college is hard and you have to earn at least a 90% average to pass with an acceptable grade. But it usually lasts only 4 years and after that you spend the next 40 to 50 years in the world where you need to always have a 100% grade average and one error in your entire working career can and usually will bring a fast inglorious end to your chosen career.

Sadly a college degree does not guarantee wealth and it often proves to be a hindrance to wealth. If a person's desire is to earn a high income, college/university is usually not the route to do so. When a person goes to university for the sole purpose of earning a high income, they have wasted their time, the time of the teachers and took up space that could have benefited a person who sought an education, not a pay check.

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[PouringRain]

I'm kinda feeling lazy because I just want life to be easy for me and I want no hardships, but if I continue to get hardships with no relief and satisfaction, I hope to god that I will die in my sleep, there is absolutely no point in living in a world full of hardships with hardly any oppurtunity to succeed.

It is through the hardships that we are refined and grow.

[Cabdullahi]

No college, no uni = master of the custodial arts:thumbs_up

IT MIGHT SOUND FANCY BUT I'LL TELL YOU , YOU GONNA GET DIDDLEY SQUAT! DOING THAT JOB
SO GET BACK INTO EDUCATION!!!!!

[tango92]

you shud hook up with some pakistani parlimentarians

they know where the best deals on degrees are

[cat eyes]

the minimum wage here to get job without degree is higher then a lot of countries, europeans over flood the country.. they come here for at least 5 or 6 years and they buy houses in poland or where ever there from or they set up there own buisness.. this is a way to faster method of getting wealthy quick but if you really want to learn then you might aswell forget about money if your not patient.

[Ğħαrєєвαħ]

Aslaamu`Alaaykum

Jannah is not Easy to enter! so we must work hard and do it all to please Allaah!
Fasting is hard for some as college maybe for some, but we all try to put our efforts in to achieve the best results, so if we sit and complain all day we will achieve nothing.

Its like saying lets build every room just in ONE room, like unfold the bathroom out, bedroom etc bla bla bla, just being lazy and we dont want to have make the effort! Aaah if only life was that easy , we wouldnt have to work hard to strive for Jannah!

Think of how much Allaah SWT has given us, but we just wanna make it more "Easy" and think we will please him, but we dont realise how easy Allaah has made it for us already. lemme give some examples: Like cars we drive them so we dont have to walk from A to B, you would be suprised how far this A and B is sometimes :-\, only a few metres! but the lame excuse "im too lazy", but what about the times when the Prophet Saw would walk it miless to get to his destination and are we not the Ummah of the Rasool SAW? Do we feel we dont have to follow him anymore?

Erm another example The prophet SAW was a King SubhaanAllaah (this makes me cry), yet he only had a really small house and slept on camel skin (correct me if im wrong) and leaves, and it left marks on his blessed body sallahu alaayhi wa salam and he didnt complain!, you know he could have made it easier like buy huge mansions etc etc, but he didnt!, and lemme ask you, are you(i even ask myself) are we different to the prophet SAW? yes, as he was the messenger but he was still human like us he never said he was superior, even Prophet Isa (as) said he was neither superior over the Prophet Muhammad SAW.

Erm and my point is we should stop complaining about ridiculous small things in life and think about things seriously if we do find it difficult then ask Allaah SWT to make it easy for you and i also ask Allaah your creator and mine to make it easy for you and the Ummaah and the whole of mankind.

and like sistah Pouringrain said move to a diff school/college or dont go!

And forgive me if i didnt make sense or was a lil harsh, hopefully i helped inshaAllaah

Wa`Alaaykum Salaam

[Karl]

I'm kinda feeling lazy because I just want life to be easy for me and I want no hardships, but if I continue to get hardships with no relief and satisfaction, I hope to god that I will die in my sleep, there is absolutely no point in living in a world full of hardships with hardly any oppurtunity to succeed.

Maybe you should try a trade if you find academic work too hard. Tradesmen make good money and you might enjoy being useful instead of reading books all day. There is a global shortage of tradespeople because everybody seems to want to be a business executive or computer geek. Hard physical work can give you a good feeling and is better for your health than sitting around all day reading boring books.
Btw what is success? Having lots of money and stuff? If you set your goals to be more realistic you will be happier.
Nearly everybody has a miserable life, you just have to battle on and try and enjoy yourself, till death takes out your light and gives you eternal night.:skeleton:

[AlwaysIslam]

i hate it, why is it hard?

why did they make it hard and was it necessary to make it hard? why can't every single human being go to school and easily pass and get a degree and get a job? why the heck are they making life harder than it already is?

for the people that are in college, are you people able to get a degree easily without getting frustrated?

because i want to get a degree the easy way not the stupid hard way

btw im in college, but it sucks

and even being PATIENT to make the hardship pass by quicker isn't really gonna make me feel better.

im a pretty impatient person right now.

i just want to get lots of **** money and just get whatever the hell i want.

Everytime you feel like you cannot go on
You feel so lost
That your so alone
All you is see is night
And darkness all around
You feel so helpless
You can’t see which way to go
Don’t despair and never loose hope
Cause Allah is always by your side
Insha Allah
Insya Allah you’ll find your way

Lol..I was listening to this nasheed right when I came across your post ^_^.

[Vigno]

i hate it, why is it hard?

why did they make it hard and was it necessary to make it hard? why can't every single human being go to school and easily pass and get a degree and get a job? why the heck are they making life harder than it already is?

for the people that are in college, are you people able to get a degree easily without getting frustrated?

because i want to get a degree the easy way not the stupid hard way

btw im in college, but it sucks

and even being PATIENT to make the hardship pass by quicker isn't really gonna make me feel better.

im a pretty impatient person right now.

i just want to get lots of **** money and just get whatever the hell i want.

Salamu Alekum

Firstly, I can absolutely understand what you feel brother, studying is frustrating and long, and with uni it can take up to 7 years or more like in my case. But I ask you brother, is this how we are? Weaklings seeking life to flow like a river with no obstacles? Where is the test of Allah to us then, if we just finish things easily and get money and have fun then die and go to Paradise?
I would say no. Life is not to be so easy and yet Allah subhanah wa Taalah does not put anything on anyone that is more than that person's power, simply because Allah does not want hardship for us but at the same time He does not want us to be lazy and useless.

All around you, you can see people with so much money and they are able to get all what they want in this world, but are they happy? Most aren't because they get lost in this world and forget that the real wealth lies in Paradise. Yes there are happy rich people but that's because they have strived in their life while balancing between studies and seeking Allah's path and therefore, they receive their reward in Paradise inshallah.

What I can tell you brother is not to let Satan get onto you and make you lose faith in Allah and get your mind and heart clinging to this world. Always remember that your patience will be rewarded by Allah inshallah, and every hardship you have will raise your value in Paradise inshallah.
And you know, when I get a hardship, I smile, beacause I feel that my degree is going higher and that Allah wants to forgive me by this hardship.

So we should say alhamdulilah and ask Allah for forgiveness for being impatient. Instead of wishing our life to end, we should ask Allah to make us live longer so that we can do more good deeds.

May Allah guide you brother, ameen

[User_23338]

but what is the use of education being so hard though? Allah probably doesn't consider education a test, he only tests us on what good or bad we do.

basically education being hard is unnessesary and stupid.

why would allah want to put someone in a bad position when allah already knows that person is not gonna succeed in anything?

[Vigno]

but what is the use of education being so hard though? Allah probably doesn't consider education a test, he only tests us on what good or bad we do.

basically education being hard is unnessesary and stupid.

why would allah want to put someone in a bad position when allah already knows that person is not gonna succeed in anything?

Dear brother, Allah subhanah wa Taalah judges us according to all our actions, so is it really right that we just sit idle and wait for wealth to come?
Well, if you ask me, I hate education, especially when am studying what am not interested in, so its like feeding meat to a chicken. That's why I said I know how you feel coz I am going through the same, I would like to work now and start earning a living rather than spending all my time studying what am not going to be working anyway.
However, there are times in life that seem hard and useless to go through, but it's what Allah destined for us and its not for us to question Allah's will but rather remember that anything that happens to us is for the good even if it doesn't seem so because Allah loves us and He wants the best for us.

[Woodrow]

but what is the use of education being so hard though? Allah probably doesn't consider education a test, he only tests us on what good or bad we do.

basically education being hard is unnessesary and stupid.

why would allah want to put someone in a bad position when allah already knows that person is not gonna succeed in anything?

:sl:

What is the purpose of Education?

I suspect you have a mistaken idea as to why a person seeks an education and not only welcomes the challenges but later regrets that it was not many times more difficult.

[AlwaysIslam]

Salaams,
Here are some duas that might help you. Surely if you say the dua, having strong faith in Allah, he will bless you. And inshAllah you will be successful in your studies and career if you recite these duas each time before studying and taking exams. One can't just say the dua and expect to be successful they must put in hard word and study hard also.

Imam al-Haddâd encouraged his students to read the following intention before studying:
Al-hamdu llilahi rabb il ‘âlamîn wa salallahu ‘ala saydinâ Muhamamdin wa ‘alâ âlihi wa sahbihi wa sallam. Nawaytu al-ta’alluma wa talîma wat tadhakkara wa-tadhkîr wa na’fa’ wal ‘intifâ’ wal-ifâdah wa’l istifâdah wal-hath ‘ala_tamassuki bi kitâbillahi wa sunnati rusûlihi wa du’â il al-hudâ wa dalâlata ‘alal khayri wabtighâha waj hillâhi wa mardâtihi wa qurbihi wa thawâbihi subhânahu wa ta’âla.
All praise is to Allah, Lord of the Worlds. And salutations and greetings upon our master Muhammad and upon his family and companions. I intend to study and teach, take and give a reminder, take and give benefit, take and give advantage, to encourage the holding fast to the book of Allah and the way of His messenger, and calling to guidance and directing towards good, hoping for the countenance of Allah and His pleasure, proximity and reward, transcendent is He.


Dua for after studying:
“Allahumma inni astaodeeka ma qara’tu wama hafaz-tu. Farudduhu ‘allaya inda hajati elahi. Innaka ‘ala ma-tasha’-u qadeer wa anta hasbeeya wa na’mal wakeel”
“Oh Allah! I entrust you with what I have read and I have studied. Oh Allah! Bring it back to me when I am in need of it. Oh Allah! You do whatever you wish, you are my availer and protector and the best of aid.”


Dua while studying something difficult:
“Allahumma la sahla illama ja-’altahu sahla anta taj ‘alu al hazana eza ma shi’ta sahal.”
“Oh Allah! Nothing is easy except what you have made easy. If you wish, you can make the difficult easy.”

[User_23338]

Salaams,
Here are some duas that might help you. Surely if you say the dua, having strong faith in Allah, he will bless you. And inshAllah you will be successful in your studies and career if you recite these duas each time before studying and taking exams. One can't just say the dua and expect to be successful they must put in hard word and study hard also.

Imam al-Haddâd encouraged his students to read the following intention before studying:
Al-hamdu llilahi rabb il ‘âlamîn wa salallahu ‘ala saydinâ Muhamamdin wa ‘alâ âlihi wa sahbihi wa sallam. Nawaytu al-ta’alluma wa talîma wat tadhakkara wa-tadhkîr wa na’fa’ wal ‘intifâ’ wal-ifâdah wa’l istifâdah wal-hath ‘ala_tamassuki bi kitâbillahi wa sunnati rusûlihi wa du’â il al-hudâ wa dalâlata ‘alal khayri wabtighâha waj hillâhi wa mardâtihi wa qurbihi wa thawâbihi subhânahu wa ta’âla.
All praise is to Allah, Lord of the Worlds. And salutations and greetings upon our master Muhammad and upon his family and companions. I intend to study and teach, take and give a reminder, take and give benefit, take and give advantage, to encourage the holding fast to the book of Allah and the way of His messenger, and calling to guidance and directing towards good, hoping for the countenance of Allah and His pleasure, proximity and reward, transcendent is He.


Dua for after studying:
“Allahumma inni astaodeeka ma qara’tu wama hafaz-tu. Farudduhu ‘allaya inda hajati elahi. Innaka ‘ala ma-tasha’-u qadeer wa anta hasbeeya wa na’mal wakeel”
“Oh Allah! I entrust you with what I have read and I have studied. Oh Allah! Bring it back to me when I am in need of it. Oh Allah! You do whatever you wish, you are my availer and protector and the best of aid.”


Dua while studying something difficult:
“Allahumma la sahla illama ja-’altahu sahla anta taj ‘alu al hazana eza ma shi’ta sahal.”
“Oh Allah! Nothing is easy except what you have made easy. If you wish, you can make the difficult easy.”

i think i've tried this before, but it didn't really work, i guess this means that Allah really doesn't care whether we do good or bad in education.

[AlwaysIslam]

-_- *sighs*... Allah does care. "The seeking of knowledge is obligatory for every Muslim. [...]"-Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) Allah always wants the best for his slaves. This is probably the last thing you want to hear right now, but you have to have patience and keep working hard putting your faith in Allah. “Be patient (in adversity); for, verily, God will not let the reward of the righteous be wasted.“-The Holy Quran, Chapter 11, Verse 115.

i think i've tried this before, but it didn't really work, i guess this means that Allah really doesn't care whether we do good or bad in education.

[User_23338]

How long do I have to be patient? And when will I really be happy with my life?

I really wish I wasn't born, because I wouldn't have to experience stupid hardships and torture myself with education and etc.

to tell you the truth, i have never been truly happy with my life and I don't know when i will, I'm just really stressed right now.

[AlwaysIslam]

How long do I have to be patient? And when will I really be happy with my life?

I really wish I wasn't born, because I wouldn't have to experience stupid hardships and torture myself with education and etc.

to tell you the truth, i have never been truly happy with my life and I don't know when i will, I'm just really stressed right now.

Awh =( I'm sorry. Yeah education isn't for everybody...but I've heard this hadith where when one suffers in this life, Allah is preparing them for the hearafter so that when they are judged by Allah they aren't carrying any sins. Because their suffering in this life is taking away the sins for when they go to be judged in front of Allah and enter Heaven.

[User_23338]

I heard that there are people like me that actually graduated college and got their careers, but I don't know what the hell I'm gonna do. I can only hope for a merical or something.

[Vigno]

I heard that there are people like me that actually graduated college and got their careers, but I don't know what the hell I'm gonna do. I can only hope for a merical or something.

Brother the more you think, the more stressed you will get. Just stop thinking and leave it for Allah. That doesn't mean you sleep and leave it for Allah though, just do what you can and don't be so hopeless. Trust Allah blindly and He shall bestow His light upon you inshallah.

[AlwaysIslam]

Brother the more you think, the more stressed you will get. Just stop thinking and leave it for Allah. That doesn't mean you sleep and leave it for Allah though, just do what you can and don't be so hopeless. Trust Allah blindly and He shall bestow His light upon you inshallah.

I second that!! ^_^

[User_23338]

Brother the more you think, the more stressed you will get. Just stop thinking and leave it for Allah. That doesn't mean you sleep and leave it for Allah though, just do what you can and don't be so hopeless. Trust Allah blindly and He shall bestow His light upon you inshallah.

inshallah, and please brother, pray for me alot, I want more good things to happen to me and my family, like my dad getting more money in his job and me getting better in school and me getting better socially.

Please I need all the duas I can get, I am sick and tired of being stressed and frustrated

[Woodrow]

How long do I have to be patient? And when will I really be happy with my life?

I really wish I wasn't born, because I wouldn't have to experience stupid hardships and torture myself with education and etc.

to tell you the truth, i have never been truly happy with my life and I don't know when i will, I'm just really stressed right now.

:sl:

Now I see the actual problem. I suspect you are being pressured into a career you have no interest in.

A long time ago I had a young man in my case load who was a dismal failure in school. He could not keep up with his studies, hated school and yet knew he had the potential to be a surgeon. He did quite well in premed, but when he hit med school he could not keep up nor take the stress. He came from a very long line of Doctors his grandfather was a well known MD as was his father and 2 older siblings. He had the aptitude and intelligence to be anything he desired. After speaking with him a few times I discovered his ambition was to build automobiles, not any auto but formula one racing type. I talked with his parents and they finaly agreed to let him go into automotive design, and he excelled at it and has made quite a name for himself. But, he was depressed because he felt he let his family down. It was after his family accepted that medicine was not for him did he finally start enjoying school.

[User_23338]

woodrow, that is not what I am talking about, I don't even know what I'm even good at hence why I am undecided about my major at the moment.

[Woodrow]

woodrow, that is not what I am talking about, I don't even know what I'm even good at hence why I am undecided about my major at the moment.

:sl:

What types of things do you enjoy, if anything.

[User_23338]

Well I was kinda thinking that I would do something computer related I guess

[Woodrow]

Well I was kinda thinking that I would do something computer related I guess

That is a start and also a very diverse field. Very wide open, what would you prefer working with hardware or doing soft ware design or just working with a computer such as in Graqphic designing or system analysis?

[Ğħαrєєвαħ]

How long do I have to be patient? And when will I really be happy with my life?

I really wish I wasn't born, because I wouldn't have to experience stupid hardships and torture myself with education and etc.

to tell you the truth, i have never been truly happy with my life and I don't know when i will, I'm just really stressed right now.

Aslaaamu`Alaaykum

Brother i see great advices for you on this thread MashaAllaah

You have to be patient untill you finally learn how to be patient lol if that makes sense, what i mean by that, if you talk about your difficulties all the time and not deal with them, how are you going to be patient? that will just increase stress and make you feel like your hardship is never going to end. Yes you will be happy if you stop thinking about education sooo seriously and thinking its your only way to please yourself which ofcourse is not.
And brother you should not wish you wasnt born, or how are you going to enjoy the afterlife? if you wasnt born you would have no chance in meeting the prophets Pbut, and esp when you get a chance to see the face of Allaah and meet him inshaAllaah.

I read somewhere that when you get hardships and you passed and then Allaah tests you with a harder one, he is only testing your faith, and if you smile you will not regret it. So if this life is really hard for one, the hereafter will be as easy!

Try to do what you enjoy and what you think also pleases Allaah and dont let education make you feel stressed if you do not get what you will then just be happy with that and pray to Allaah to make it easy for you the next time and leave it to Allaah, as long as you have tried hard,put effort in. on the bright side you wont be taking these grades, job whatever with you , you will leave it all behind, so just do as much as you can and take the brothers and sisters advices.

Wa`ALaaykum Salaam

[User_23338]

I just feel uncomfortable and scared and I don't feel like going to class sometimes because i'm undetermined and Im afraid of the tests and assignments because I'm afraid I won't do good in class.

I feel so messed up right now, what the hell am I gonna do?

[Woodrow]

I just feel uncomfortable and scared and I don't feel like going to class sometimes because i'm undetermined and Im afraid of the tests and assignments because I'm afraid I won't do good in class.

I feel so messed up right now, what the hell am I gonna do?

Help is never any further from you than your prayer rug.


Now is the time to pray for guidance and sincerly ask if university is the right path for you. Each person has within themselves wonderful talents. But, they need to learn what these talents are and how to prepare for them. I notice you live in NC. Go to your nearest State employment office and request to speak with an employment guidance counselor. Request a full battery of aptitude tests and ask to be given the Kuder preference test and if possible the MMPI. From there go over with you counselor and single out your areas of highest interest and aptitude. That is a starting point for finding the best vocation for you and a guide to learning what fields of study you should excel in.

[User_23338]

Why does school have to be so hard? 4 years of hell just to get your degree and your career, and then you die afterwards, it's pretty much the same like we are going through, life is hard but you have to do good to get to jannah. I don't even know if i should be jealous of the people that did their four years and they became engineers, why couldn't I be as smart as them and get my career? working hard is not even easy for most people and yet most other people are able to work hard, this is just unfair.

[User_23338]

Allah better hurry up and give me a good oppurtunity so my life can be friggen easy. I've waiting for a **** long time for Allah to give me that oppurtunity, but he's not helping me, im sick and tired of waiting and I don't want to wait any longer.

[Ğħαrєєвαħ]

Aslaamu`Alaaykum^Subhaan`Allaah Akhee

Leme tell you honestly ya Akhee, if you read of the hardships the prophets went through, yours in nothing compared to theirs, but if you actually focused on their hardship you will learn something, 1. how to be patient, 2. to be humble and sincere
And those who focus only on their problems and forget about the ones around the world to learn from are hypocrytes! i can honestly say you would be in tears.

The Character of the believer is to be patient and to be strong!, i dont see that from you! If only you was to Ask Allaah directly to ease your hardships, and to praise Allaahs creation. From your comment i see you giving up and a muslim never gives up

By showing your anger and complaining is certainly not gonna get you anywhere, as brother Woodrow mentioned earlier in a post, do something that pleases you (the career path).

Your saying Allaah isnt helping you? I can surely say he is helping you!, Your still alive and breathing right? Dont you ever feel your blessed coz Allaah still gives you the chance to be able to live another day and to be able to repent for your sins? You never know when Allaah wills to take your soul, coz you seem to be wanting to have more enjoyment in this life rather than the hereafter. Does that not concern you more? Than thinking of how hard some exam at school/college is? I think you need to learn to be patient with what youve got, you need to take a step further to be patient in your times rather than complaining brother.

I sincerely mean this, And I ask Allaah to ease your hardships and grant you happiness and grant you what pleases you and your lord Ameen
But please try make an effort to Ask Allaah and realise that we are humans also, we can only advice you and Allaah can only make it happen for you. I advice you to supplicate to Allaah sincerely, humble yourself!
I dont think i helped much but i tried inshaAllaah

Wa`Alaaykum Salaam

[User_23338]

there are so many people in this world that can't get a career because it's hard for them, not only because they can't go to school, because they don't really understand some of the material.

things are getting worse now, it's not gonna get any better, and don't even think about feeling sorry for me.

everything is getting more messed up, I can't believe things are more messed up now, than it was before, it's actually hard for me at some points to think positive at times, even though people go through hardships, things get better later on.

[Ğħαrєєвαħ]

Aslaamu`Alaaykum^ I guess as a muslim you should realise that things will get better later on. As muslims we ask Allaah to help us, thats why we dont worship idols!
You first must have faith and trust without that you cant really do much i believe.

Brother are you being forced to go in to education? If not, are you really putting that effort in to pass your exams? do you make Dua to Allaah to help you pass?
However this life isnt to achieve the best career but our goal is Allaah . . .if we dont get what we want, should we be blaming Allaah?

Lets say you pray for what you want, but you know Allaah instead he gives you what you need, are you going to be angry with Allaah for not giving you what you want, because he gave you what you need and thats always whats best for you!

I hope sooner or later someone will give you good enough advice, i feel im not helping, but do try to ask Allaah more, is he not the one that created you? We are also his creation and we all seek for his help in our hard times, we are like you, you arent the only one going thrugh hard times, maybe it would help if you look at those who are less fortunate than ourselves, but you will still see them smiling and thanking Allaah.

A believer says Alhamdulilaah always, in hard times.

Wa`Alaaykum Salaam

[tango92]

life is tough bro, if you can get over that then you can be successful. do you even try in college? it sounds like youve given up from the get go.....

[The Ruler]

things are getting worse now, it's not gonna get any better,

Isn't that exemplary of losing trust in God?

[User_23338]

Isn't that exemplary of losing trust in God?

it's not my fault if things are hard for me, and it's also not my fault if I'm frustrated and stressed with school, getting worried about school is messed up and troublesome for me, and no I'm not gonna lose trust to god, but all of these problems that are happening to me are causing me to lose trust to god.

getting worried for school is a horrible feeling, like it's never going to end, and I'm basically in the middle of it, I am trying but the material is hard to understand especially history classes, English classes( hate them mostly) and worst of all are math classes.

why can't Allah give me lot of knowledge right now just to get through these stupid classes so I can hurry up and get my degree and career?

why does Allah make other people smart and successful but not me?

[Yanal]

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i hate it, why is it hard?

If you keep thinking as it is in a negative way it is sure to impact your thinking mentally and thus probably keep you from doing the best from your potential,stay optimistic insha'Allaah, nothing is impossible in this life if Allaah is with you.

why did they make it hard and was it necessary to make it hard? why can't every single human being go to school and easily pass and get a degree and get a job? why the heck are they making life harder than it already is?

If that was it,then we would have theifs conducting surgery on our bodies just to steal our kidneys and sell it,won't we? The studies are meant to be advanced(depending on what course your taking,and what your career objective is) so if you are intending to be a heart surgeon(an example) then you would have to go through tons of training and studying in order to acheive your goal otherwise you wouldn't know what your doing when it comes down for conducting a surgery,would you?

for the people that are in college, are you people able to get a degree easily without getting frustrated?

because i want to get a degree the easy way not the stupid hard way

Colleges are meant to be for students who wish to study after highschool,post-secondary studies for students who wish to pursue advance careers. Thats why only a partial number of highschool graduates each year attend college(or Univerisity) not like the transition from middle school to highschool. Keep your heart to it and insha'Allaah it will be easy for you.

btw im in college, but it sucks

and even being PATIENT to make the hardship pass by quicker isn't really gonna make me feel better.

I can tell that your frustrated with your current situation,what makes it difficult for you?

im a pretty impatient person right now.

i just want to get lots of **** money and just get whatever the hell i want.

Remember Allaah in the times of need,pray,make du'a and insha'Allaah the path will be clear.

[OurIslamic]

Learn which way you study best (verbal, visual, or a mix of the two) and develop a rigorous study regimen. Stop complaining, this board is not for people to simply vent and complain, it's for those who actually want to change or improve their lifestyle.

I'm being blunt with you, but honestly, I don't know what else to say. Your posts are depressing. Get over yourself. There are people in third world countries that have to walk three miles on foot, with out shoes, to get to school and study sitting down on a hard floor. However, here you are complaining about having the ability to study in a decent, at the worst, educational institution.

Honestly, you've received advice, but you aren't even responding to it. LISTEN to Uncle Woodrow, don't just read his post and say that "studying sucks."

Either:

1) Decide school is not for you and look into possible career choices NOW.

OR

2) Continue with your schoolwork by finding out what works for you and what doesn't.