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islamirama
09-18-2010, 12:22 AM
Out There: People Who Live Without TV

By Clara Moskowitz - 04 September 2008

For many Americans the thought of life without TV is akin to forgoing food, shelter or, God forbid, the Internet. But about 1 to 2 percent of Americans do abstain from the boob tube, and they might seem like strange bedfellows.

A recent study of those who live without found that about two-thirds fall into either the "crunchy granola set" or the "religious right, ultraconservative" camp, said researcher Marina Krcmar, a professor of communication at North Carolina's Wake Forest University. Krcmar interviewed 120 people from 62 different households who do not watch television, as well as 92 people from 35 households with TV, and described her findings in a new book, "Living Without the Screen" (Routledge, 2008).

Aversion to television, it turns out, is a common ground for the very liberal and the very conservative.

"I interviewed one guy who was 31, single, an artist living in Boston, who saw himself as countercultural," Krcmar told LiveScience. "The next day I had an interview with a religious woman with ten children who lived in the Midwest. These people seem like they would disagree about almost everything, but if you ask them about television the things that came out of their mouths were almost identical."

Why do people give it up?

Krcmar herself lives on the dark side, having given up television about 13 years ago.

"It's just something I don't want in the home — it's a perpetual annoyance, like a gnat," she said.

The motivations for most people who abandon TV fall into three categories, Krcmar found.

Some give it up to avoid exposing their families to the excessive sex, violence, and consumerism they feel are promoted onscreen. Others object to the medium itself, claiming television intrudes too much into their lives, interferes with conversation and takes time away from the family. Finally, some people have a beef with the power and values of the television industry and don't want its influence in their homes.

In contrast to the average American adult, who watches three hours of television a day, non-watchers fill their time with a plethora of activities.

"Non-viewers had a greater variety of things that they did with their free time than viewers did," Krcmar said. "It's not just that they were reading instead of watching TV. They were hiking and biking, and going to community meetings and visiting with friends. Overall, they tend to do more of everything."

Are they right?

Science does in fact support many non-watchers' worst fears about TV.

"The research tends to show that increased exposure to television and violence results in greater aggression in children," Krcmar said. "That's a pretty consistent finding."

Though not all children become more violent, and everyone reacts uniquely, it's fair to say that what we watch affects us.

When parents did cut television out of their homes, they reported that their kids didn't bug them as much for junk food and toys advertised on TV. They also said giving up television made their children easier to manage.

"It's sort of counter-intuitive, because people think their kids would drive them nuts without TV," Krcmar said. "But parents found that kids became very good at entertaining themselves and didn't need to be entertained all the time by something that was lively and active. They didn’t complain about being bored."

Downsides of life without TV

People who had relinquished television didn't report too many downsides. Most felt satisfied getting their news from newspapers and radio, and while some people said they felt less connected to pop culture, "many adults noted that as a point of pride," Krcmar said.

Even most kids in non-watching households seemed to agree with their parents that they were better off without the reviled medium, though a number of kids around ages 10 to 13 said they resented feeling left out when other kids talk about shows and actors on television. By the time they reached later adolescence around age 14 and 15, though, most had come full circle and said they didn't really like TV and didn't mind doing without.

For those who want to experience some of the benefits of life without the tube, but don't feel ready to go cold turkey, Krcmar said she thinks good things can come just by setting limits.

"I think you can have the benefits just by having kids watch less television," she said. "Be selective about content. You don’t go to a restaurant and let them eat anything on the menu. Instead you say choose something that's healthy that you would enjoy."

A similarly restrained approach to TV could go a long way toward protecting kids from the downsides of TV.

http://www.livescience.com/culture/080904-no-tv.html
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Beardo
09-18-2010, 02:23 AM
I don't have a TV, but nowadays, with YouTube and all... It's quite common NOT to have one.

When I did have a TV, I used to be so obsessive over it. Alhamdulillah, cut off from those days long ago. It's better not to have one, more productivity in your life.
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islamirama
09-18-2010, 03:10 AM
Turn OFF TV, Turn on Life

Quality Family Time? Television is a big part of society today. 98 percent of homes in America contain at least one TV set, and a third of all homes contain two or more television sets. Parents come home after a hard day's work and sit down in front of their TV, in lieu of sitting down with their families. Hour after hour, day after day, this endless cycle of "TV therapy" continues. Kids learn these habits from their parents. In a year, the average child spends 1023 hours in front of a TV—more than the 900 hours they spend in school!

`Action-packed fun' or Violence? The content of TV lends itself more and more towards violent shows and movies. Children who watch TV are more likely to be aggressive and commit violent acts.

Many TV shows and movies encourage the use of violence to the exclusion of anything else. The heroes exalted after they annihilate the "bad guys". The selective media coverage of murders and catastrophes leads us all to constantly fear that something bad will happen to us.

Females who watched more than the average amount of violence tend to throw things at their husbands more often, and men who grew up watching violent TV shows are more likely to be violent with their wives.

Obesity & Laziness. Extended periods in front of the television can be detrimental to your health. The time spent vegetating on the couch could be spent exercising or playing sports. While they're watching TV, people tend not to notice how much they shovel down their mouths. Obesity, due to over-eating, affects one third of Canadians.

Allah (SWT) says in the Quran, "Eat of the good things we have provided for your sustenance, but commit no excess therein, lest my wrath should justly descend on you, and those on whom descends my wrath do perish indeed" (20:81). Two hours of TV a day—just four TV shows—are linked to a 23 percent increase in obesity.

Attention Span and Reading. The seven-minute segments of TV content condition children to such an extent that the children's attention span drops to seven minutes.

Children who watch a lot of TV find it more difficult to read. This is because reading requires children to move their eyes back and forth across the page, as opposed to fixing their eyes on one spot—like when they watch TV.

Fuel for Lust. It is impossible to lower one's gaze while watching Television. Channel after channel, program after program, and even during commercial breaks, TV bombards us with indecently dressed men and women and sexual innuendo, if not outright pornographic content.

Even seemingly-innocent programs, such as news, have begun to follow this trend. Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) says, "The furtive glance is one of the poisoned arrows of Shaytan, on him be God's curse" (Al-Haakim).

Most television programming does not promote modesty (Haya) in men and women. A study shows that an astounding 55-65 percent of content contains sexual content in word or deed, yet only 10 percent of those make any reference to being faithful to one's life partner.

TV Abuse. TV obsession is no joke. Like substance abuse, TV can cause dependency and addiction. You may find yourself channel surfing when you're bored, or watching TV for longer than you intended to. Ironically, watching more TV leads to enjoying TV less, yet many are unable to stop watching or even cut down on viewing hours.

It's tough to escape peer pressure when your friends keep talking about the clothes, the music and the stars. Today, Television defines teen culture. With its barrage of alluring advertisements and captivating shows, it tells you what is cool and what is `in' and `out'. Let Islam, not the media, decide your dress code, morals, and values.

Adopt and support Islamic media. Hundreds of educational or entertainment multi-media products crafted by Muslims hit the market every year. These cartoons, movies could be enjoyable for the entire family!

Protect your heart from hardening. Frequent sinning through consuming violence, profanity, and pornography on TV hardens and blackens the heart. It may reach a point that the heart may no longer respond to reminders of death, Allah (SWT), or the Quran. Fear of Allah (SWT) may completely vanish. This is the worst thing that can happen to you!

The Prophet (PBUH) said: "The heart will be subjected to trial after trial, and there will appear a black stain on any heart that is affected. The stain will spread until the heart is completely black and sealed, to the point that it will not recognize any good deeds or denounce any evil, except whatever suits its own desires" (Sahih Muslim).

And remember, Allah (SWT), your best Friend! He is there to help you. The Prophet told his close companion: "By Allah! Whoever gives up something for the sake of Allah, Allah will replace it with something better than it!"
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glo
09-18-2010, 06:48 AM
My family went without TV for about 8 years between summer 2001 and 2009. Only last year did we give in to the pleading of our (now teenage) children.

Having a TV again means that we can watch certain programmes which we find either entertaining or informative. It can also be a way of having family time.
However, we also have to be selective in what we watch. There is an awful lot of rubbish, which we try to avoid.
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05-11-2012, 08:16 AM
:bump:

Good post mashaAllaah :thumbs_up
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BadOlPuttyTat
05-12-2012, 07:44 PM
I will say this my family has a TV for every member of the family. Me, my mother, my brother, my sister and one for the kitchen. ALL HD! I do not like TV mostly and cannot sit watching garbage all day and must do something. Ironically this is video games, unlike common theory kids in asia play them more then anyone else, this increases thinking capability. Americans play mindless dumb video games while i play Japanese ones, RPG that involves calculating ratios and such, these "Role Playing Games" (The Japanese ones not the fake American ones) are what I and many others call "subliminal math".

Regarding TV i am a big naturalistic and i am a "technological anti-tech". I am the biggest computer nerd but i strong dislike everything modern, I choose wood over plastic, quality over quantity, anarchy over politics, amd blades over guns, and classical masterpieces over pop because Mussorgsky is far superior over any rapper; period.

As long as i have a minimum of 2,500 acres of thick lush green forest, God, my favorites knives, Wolverine combat boots, animals to hunt and eat, I am a happy man.
Id make Rambo look like your baby sister any day ;D.
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BadOlPuttyTat
05-12-2012, 07:53 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by Beardo
I don't have a TV, but nowadays, with YouTube and all... It's quite common NOT to have one.

When I did have a TV, I used to be so obsessive over it. Alhamdulillah, cut off from those days long ago. It's better not to have one, more productivity in your life.
Question. Why did you choose olives as your display picture? Everybody is looking for something cool and you choose olives? Everybody looks for dragons and men with sunglasses to use as display pictures and you choose olives? Your what my family calls me often,"oddly unique". Although i must say i can never find black olives at the store. Wouldn't that make you rather "counter-cultural" doing the total opposite? :p

Also "Weirdo + Beard=Loss" is wrong. It equals a "a mighty awesome nerd", i respect men with beards same way i respect men with hats. Because we must face it, beards and hats aren't what they use to be :statisfie
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dqsunday
05-13-2012, 12:49 AM
There really isn't anything on TV worth watching. Fake reality shows, unrealistic 'soap operas' which plots a 2 year old could see through, a few informative shows but most are hype and the 'fad du jour' be it diet/weight loss or the new'super food' that prevents cancer etc. Even news is just rehashed from the same source, especially for non local news. Even then its over sensationized...Even nature shows or news shows predicting the 'evil' pets some people keep, are so off base and over sensationlized to out right lies...its discusting.

For instance, for those of you who heard about it, the whole Pythons taken over the Florida everglades and could swarm across most of the southern states in time...Its so untrue and filled with false science...

Some real science shows are interesting but mostly in the specialitiy stations, but they mix it up with so much crap shows its often not worth watching it to get the good stuff. For me, the TV could be off, but i have it on to just make the room less quiet. but I tend to leave it on National Geographic station or Space Station..sometimes I have it on mute while I am watching more interesting stuff on my computer, such as Islam related lectures etc. Or responding to this forum.

I didn't have TV when I was in my own place actually...I had a TV set but stopped watching it, the cost of cable tv was too expensive to get any decent stations...and most times I never watched it anyway especialy when I can watch what want on my computer via youtube and other shows..without all the annoying commercials...(though now that I converted, I avoid watching stuff online that is pirated. One reason I try to watch videos on YouTube which are put up by the authors, not just somebody randomly uploading something that may not be given permissio).

Only real draw back of not watching TV is its a bit harder to keep up with world events...but again internet can solve that problem.
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BadOlPuttyTat
05-13-2012, 01:04 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by dqsunday
There really isn't anything on TV worth watching. Fake reality shows, unrealistic 'soap operas' which plots a 2 year old could see through, a few informative shows but most are hype and the 'fad du jour' be it diet/weight loss or the new'super food' that prevents cancer etc. Even news is just rehashed from the same source, especially for non local news. Even then its over sensationized...Even nature shows or news shows predicting the 'evil' pets some people keep, are so off base and over sensationlized to out right lies...its discusting.

For instance, for those of you who heard about it, the whole Pythons taken over the Florida everglades and could swarm across most of the southern states in time...Its so untrue and filled with false science...

Some real science shows are interesting but mostly in the specialitiy stations, but they mix it up with so much crap shows its often not worth watching it to get the good stuff. For me, the TV could be off, but i have it on to just make the room less quiet. but I tend to leave it on National Geographic station or Space Station..sometimes I have it on mute while I am watching more interesting stuff on my computer, such as Islam related lectures etc. Or responding to this forum.

I didn't have TV when I was in my own place actually...I had a TV set but stopped watching it, the cost of cable tv was too expensive to get any decent stations...and most times I never watched it anyway especialy when I can watch what want on my computer via youtube and other shows..without all the annoying commercials...(though now that I converted, I avoid watching stuff online that is pirated. One reason I try to watch videos on YouTube which are put up by the authors, not just somebody randomly uploading something that may not be given permissio).

Only real draw back of not watching TV is its a bit harder to keep up with world events...but again internet can solve that problem.

Now you share my pain in television. Television is boring, to many murder shows and cop dramas with ARE NOT dramatic lol. I don't share an interest in people's lives at all, its sad but i am a very conservative and quiet person. I remember when my TV went out i just picked it up and took it downstairs and just through it on the floor lol. means that little its just a novelty item basically. :p
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