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There's an Islamic community center in my very small town, which seems to often be somewhat empty. I had never been to til 2 years ago during ramadan because (1.) I never even knew we had one (2.) when I did find out we had one I heard that only men attended, and (3.) there aren't many muslims in the community (or so it seems), therefore I assumed there probably werent many muslims who attended there anyway.
In my town, the only muslims I know of is my family and only like two of my uncles go there usually during ramadan for taraweeh..I decided to go one day after asking if any Muslim women attended at all, and my uncle told me there were like 2 of them who came sometimes, so I went hoping I could maybe meet them and maybe get an islamic sisterhood club going or something, haha ok not really lol but yeah...anyways, when I got there I was really shocked to see this was what was being used as a form of a community center/mosque. It was very small, there wasn't a section for the women (they had to pray behind the men), there were only like 4 people! 4!! for taraweeh! I mean, ok sure the town is small, but come on...and worst of all, it had an imam but he wasn't even there..in fact, I believe a child hafiz comes once in a while to lead taraweeh during ramadan, but when he's not there, just a random person leads prayer. There weren't any muslim women at all, there were like 3 reverts, 1 desi muslim, and then it was us.
I didn't feel the islamic spirit there, no no..I had not been there since then (2 years ago), but it's always in the back of my head that I need to do something and I can't really brush it away cuz I don't think anyone is doing anything. I would love to have an Islamic community here, for dawah purposes or just to allow muslims to come to a place where they can be closer...I would have loved to have someplace to go to to learn Quran or Arabic, or hear a khutbah, etc..but instead i do all that stuff online or read books cuz I don't have any other resources. I feel now that me and my family's iman is getting better Alhemdulilah, I would like to apply my knowledge in helping and guiding others inshallah..I just don't know how..I feel bad that there are reverts who probably don't have anyone to help them much, I've been in their shoes and it's a challenge..most of all I feel that there may be more muslims around but they're just muslim by name cuz they don't have anyone to teach them and so maybe theyre ashamed to show that they're muslim? I don't know but there has to be more muslims around than 4 people..I've passed some a few times tht I had never seen before or at the mosque.
What are some ideas or ways I can renovate this place and make it more lively so that people, even nonMuslims can feel welcome and join? Obviously this would have to be a community effort, but baby steps baby steps
I don't have any idea on how Islamic community centers run and I'm guessing my first step would be to just call the imam himself and talk to him about it, but what are some actions that could be applied?
Any suggestions would be great! and sorry for the super long post
Jazakum Allahu Khair in advance!
fi aman Allah
w'salaam
There's an Islamic community center in my very small town, which seems to often be somewhat empty. I had never been to til 2 years ago during ramadan because (1.) I never even knew we had one (2.) when I did find out we had one I heard that only men attended, and (3.) there aren't many muslims in the community (or so it seems), therefore I assumed there probably werent many muslims who attended there anyway.
In my town, the only muslims I know of is my family and only like two of my uncles go there usually during ramadan for taraweeh..I decided to go one day after asking if any Muslim women attended at all, and my uncle told me there were like 2 of them who came sometimes, so I went hoping I could maybe meet them and maybe get an islamic sisterhood club going or something, haha ok not really lol but yeah...anyways, when I got there I was really shocked to see this was what was being used as a form of a community center/mosque. It was very small, there wasn't a section for the women (they had to pray behind the men), there were only like 4 people! 4!! for taraweeh! I mean, ok sure the town is small, but come on...and worst of all, it had an imam but he wasn't even there..in fact, I believe a child hafiz comes once in a while to lead taraweeh during ramadan, but when he's not there, just a random person leads prayer. There weren't any muslim women at all, there were like 3 reverts, 1 desi muslim, and then it was us.
I didn't feel the islamic spirit there, no no..I had not been there since then (2 years ago), but it's always in the back of my head that I need to do something and I can't really brush it away cuz I don't think anyone is doing anything. I would love to have an Islamic community here, for dawah purposes or just to allow muslims to come to a place where they can be closer...I would have loved to have someplace to go to to learn Quran or Arabic, or hear a khutbah, etc..but instead i do all that stuff online or read books cuz I don't have any other resources. I feel now that me and my family's iman is getting better Alhemdulilah, I would like to apply my knowledge in helping and guiding others inshallah..I just don't know how..I feel bad that there are reverts who probably don't have anyone to help them much, I've been in their shoes and it's a challenge..most of all I feel that there may be more muslims around but they're just muslim by name cuz they don't have anyone to teach them and so maybe theyre ashamed to show that they're muslim? I don't know but there has to be more muslims around than 4 people..I've passed some a few times tht I had never seen before or at the mosque.
What are some ideas or ways I can renovate this place and make it more lively so that people, even nonMuslims can feel welcome and join? Obviously this would have to be a community effort, but baby steps baby steps

I don't have any idea on how Islamic community centers run and I'm guessing my first step would be to just call the imam himself and talk to him about it, but what are some actions that could be applied?
Any suggestions would be great! and sorry for the super long post

Jazakum Allahu Khair in advance!
fi aman Allah
w'salaam
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