I think it was when I was 4 or 5 or maybe 6. Although I cannot even remember what age I was, I still remember that particular incident very vividly.
We had two live-in nannies to take care of me and my siblings. Mind you, most middle class indonesians have nannies to take care of their children so it is nothing extravagant like in the west. I was quite stubborn kid and maybe to a point where i exasperated my mother often, and my nanny of course.
That late afternoon, around 4, as usual my nanny was supposed to bathe me. But being a quite difficult child, I kept escaping from her because I still wanted to continue playing with neighbor kids. She did everything to make me willing to take a bath, from promising to give me sweets to threatening to tell my mum about my behavior, but nothing worked.
Finally she was going to take me to have a bath whether I like it or not. Well, i didn't like it and refused to go to the shower. So she chased after me, and I kept running, and then went into our neighbor's yard. Our neighbor had a well, a deep one, in their backyard. For some reason, I thought about hiding behind the well from my nanny, but next thing I knew, i slipped, and fell into the well.
I remember falling into it, and I remember I was in the water. I couldn't swim, and what happened next was hazy.
According to what my mum told me, my nanny screamed for help, and few neighbors came, although how fast I was not sure because at 4 normally most adults would still have been in their work, and one of them got a ladder to get into the well and saved me.
I remember what's next: I was in my bed, with my mum rubbing my tummy and back with special eucalyptus and some other oil.
I saw that my mum tried to suppress her anger with me for being such a difficult kid with thankful feeling for having me saved and well.