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yas2010
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As you maybe aware from my earlier i lost my baby son at full term (39weeks) and had to go through a hard labour just over 10weeks ago. :cry:
I grieve with pain as any mother would but I have also become much more closer to Allah (swt) through my prays and dua's but
also through the wonderful support i recieve from this forum. Subhan'Allah.
There are many people that have taunted me, because i have lost my son. There cruel words hurt me. imsad
is there anything i can read to help when i hear such things.
Any advice would be gratefully recieved.
Asalaamu Alaikum, My dear sister no words will EVER affect you if you keep in your mind that if you remain patient and steadfast and do everything in this life to please Allah and refrain from anything which displeases him, then on the day of judgement your son will hold your hands and lead you into Jannah where you can spend eternity with him. Subhanallah!
Who's words can affect you now? Keep this in your mind whenever anyone tries to put you down and you will only gain happiness when you know you will be with your son soon inshallah.
May Allah re-unite you with your son so that he can hold your hands and lead you to Jannah! Ameen
Also remember the comforting words of Allah:
The Comforting words of Allah during hardships and trials
Verily, with the hardship,
there is relief
(i.e. there is one hardship with two reliefs, so one hardship cannot overcome two reliefs).
[ Al-Inshirah 94:6]
"Peace unto you for that ye persevered in patience! Now how excellent is the final home!"
Excellent indeed is the final home!" [ Ar-Rad 13:24]
"...Do not regard it an evil to you;
nay, it is good for you...."
[An- Nuur 24:11]
"...So put your trust (in Allaah)
if ye are indeed believers."
[Al-Maida 5:23]
"O ye who believe!
Seek help in steadfastness
and prayer.
Lo! Allaah is with the steadfast."
[Al-Baqarah 2:153]
"And certainly,
We shall test you with something
of fear, hunger, loss of wealth, lives and fruits,
but give glad tidings to As-Sabirin (the patient ones, etc.).
Who, when afflicted with calamity,
say: "Truly! To Allaah we belong
and truly, to Him we shall return."
[ Al-Baqara 2: 155~156]
"And He will provide him
from (sources)
He never could imagine.
And whosoever puts his trust in Allaah,
then HE will suffice him.
Verily, Allaah will accomplish his purpose.
Indeed Allaah has set a measure for all things."
[ At-Talaq 65:3]
"Verily We have created man
into toil and struggle."
[ Al-Balad 90:4]
Know that when you have problems or in difficulty, then it is by Allaah's permission for HE says:
"Say: "Nothing shall ever happen to us
except what Allaah has ordained for us.
He is our Maula (Lord, Helper and Protector)."
And in Allaah
let the believers put their trust."
[At-Taubah 9:51]
"No kind of calamity can occur,
except by the leave of Allaah
And if any one believes in Allaah,
{Allaah} guides his heart (aright):
for Allaah knows all things."
[At-Taghabun 64:11]
"...There did Allaah give you one distress after another
by way of requital
to teach you not to grieve
for that which had escaped you,
nor for that which had befallen you.
And Allaah is Well Aware of all that you do."
[Al-Imran 3:153]
And Allah knows best in all matters