Wa Alaaykum As'salaam Wa Rahmatullaah Wa Barahkaatuh
Thanks for your questions, and insha'Allaah I will try to answer to my best
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new2010
SelamAleikum waRahmetullah waBarakatuh,
I've got some questions, which are about married.
I know, that is a liability to married if you have money to supplying a family and if you couldn't "contol" your craving. .
Well, to marry there are many reasons, some of what you mentioned and also to please Allaah SWT. But i wouldnt put it as controlling 'cravings', but a little respecful such as protecting one from danger and doing what is best.
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new2010
So we know, that many muslims performing zina. Watches bad films etc. It is actually become a standard. What are the regulations? .
Well, not 'muslims' but people/humans who may be in a situation where they cannot control themselves, therefore they commit the wrong stuff.
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new2010
Let's say diffrent cases:
Case I:
A person peforms zina*, watch bad films and don't practice his religion. Should this person married? But whom? I think, the first step should be to advance his aqidah?! But if he doesn't married in that time, he will still performing that sin.
Well, this person should be firstly be made aware of knowing that zina is something is that wrong, because we dont want the person being married and not realising that is wrong, it kills the whole purpose of marriage really. The person needs to be taught about his faith, the rights and the wrongs and even the punishments if falling into sin and repenting. And so if the person is ready to marry then they do so. But by your question if you mean, the person keeps committing the 'bad' and cant control themselves, then yes marriage is a way to go.
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new2010
Case II:
A person peforms zina and watch bad films, too. But he is a very hard practicing muslim. What should that muslim do?
Well, as muslims we can all fall into sin even if were 'hard' practising as you put it, at the end of the day we are humans, the person should repent and realise his consequences. stop performing zina and stop watching bad films. The way out is remembering Allaah, fearing him, having hope in him and trusting him.
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new2010
Case III:
A person performs zina, had don't money to supplying a family because he is a student or trainee but he try to be a good muslim, he works on his religion. What should that kind of muslim do?
I'm just intressted, because zina is a very big problem, I see always brothers who are because of that problem far away from Allah. And I ask me, what kind of woman should such a muslim married? A very religious sister or a practicing sister. But if he choose the second woman, he would doen't have a chance to advance in religion. But if he married a godly sister, it would be perhaps not so nice for her.
First of all there is no such thing as 'godly' sister. The brother should continue continue trying to do good and forbid the evil.
Indeed Zina is a big problem. The muslim can marry a practising muslim, but marrying the muslim doesnt mean it will stop him from commiting sin in life, to stop that we have to control our desires. But if the person wants to marry a practising sister, they have to sort themselves out and then continue to ask Allaah for repentance and never stop. We have to keep to ourselves our sin, we do not expose it to the world. So the brother shouldnt be telling the sister about his bad deeds, but the brother must continue repenting.
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new2010
*I've read that, if you performing zina with yourself, that is a from of "normal" zina, too. But my text is generelly and zina should includes all that thnigs.
Maybe you have some thnigs to say about that topic.
SelamAleikum
Perfoming zina with yourself is wrong, forbidden. dont believe everything you hear. It is permissable with your spouse.
I hope i made sense and helped a little bit insha'Allaah.