Originally Posted by SisInIslam
Asalaamu Alaikum, jazakallahu khayr for sharing your issues with us. My sister please do not think i am shrugging off what you have stated but i just want you to realise that certain things happen to us in our lives that we don't fully understand and to try and rationalise these sudden events we try to find something to blame it on and many a time sihr is blamed when it is just simply something that has happened to us that is best for us. That goes for your job or any other event in your life. Nothing can happen without the will of Allah so a lot of the time what happens to us may acutally be the best for us even though we may not know it at the time.
I know how frustrating it must be for you not to be married yet when you have tried for so long but for some finding the right partner can take a long time and that is why when we do finally meet the "one" then we are more appreciative of them. I myself have experienced finding marriage partners for my sisters and can tell you from experience that at times things happen suddenly but later on it is apparent that whatever happened actually happened for the best because it may be that those people may not have been good for you for marriage.
know that your partner is destined for you and no matter what happens whatever is destined for you will come to you when the time is right. This is a test for you and you must continue to be patient and put your FULL reliance in Allah for he will do what is best for you as long as you be patient and trust in him and go about marriage in the permissable way.
If you do think that sihr may be involved then you should consult with a reliable and experienced scholar who will be able to establish whether there is any sihr involved and if there is then how it affects you and in what ways and what treatment is best.
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May Allah find you the best partner who will benefit you in this world and the next. Ameen
And Allah knows best in all matters