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Just a Guy
Hehe. While I am not quite ready to convert, I have to admit that I am leaning that way right now. I still have a way to go, I think before I make a decision. I called the masjid earlier today and told them I would come in over the next few days. So I plan on doing that some time next week.
I will be out of town this weekend so it will give me a few days to sort out what I want to ask them...
awww, i remember the days before i finally feel i am muslim, it was perfect, everything seems to be in the right places
This is intelligent move, pls dont ever feel being pressured, bcoz Islam is not like that
U must feel it
i must admit that i HAD INTEREST in Islam from observing the muslims, u see here, no Muslim uses bad words, most (not all maybe) put themselves in others position before speaking
in my case, it is my husband, way back when we were frends...
he never told me to learn islam or go to school or wear hijab etc
But he was indeed clever u know, he told me too many islamic stories and everytime i listen to them, i will end up crying & i would ask him to tell me the story again & again
also...
everytime i have a problem he will calmly advise me what to do and yes i am very stubborn, i wont do what he said, i will always do it in my way, but after not having peace & end up problem hanging around, i wud try his suggestions, and i can tell without tricking u.. it works 99% of time
it goes for 3years, indeed hard headed huh
yah, i used to yell at him when i am mad at someone (bcoz i am kind of person who do not take revenge, when someone pisses me off, i hate it alot, really hating it badly but i always choose to let go in the end)
but he was so patient, in total of 5years we are together, he got mad at me just once, yes i am not exaggerating, he got mad just once and it was purely my mistake
cleanliness, intention, his stable mood, just bcoz he Believe,
there are times i was jealous at him, why i am hot headed and he isnt?
basically what i am saying is that, my time didnt come so fast, Islam was introduced to me even before i met my husband (2005)
in fact i attended Islamic school here in kuwait during 2003, i was like 17
all i could remember is that i dont like hijab and men having 4 wives, thats just ridiculous
but i still remember this book called "Adab Islamia" = manners in islam
i read it countless times, i cant agree more, yes, yes, yes, people must behave in islamic way, yes i agree, but i did not become Muslim this years
because???
1st it was not my time, Allah knows best
2nd i lack of education
3rd ignorance, i let go of the chances to discover more about islam
so yes, pls take ur time, i am sure everyone here would be pleased to see u (like me) even if u remains brother in christianity
bcoz religion doesnt matter when we receive warm/gud treatment, isnt it
salam