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Musaafirah
Assalamualaikum,
Having worked in a laboratory for some time now, I feel maybe I may want to get into teaching. It was an initial aim actually, but then having experience with teaching children for some time, I feel I have no energy to deal with a class of 30 primary school children.
I was thinking of maybe focusing on chemistry so that I could teach secondary school children, but then thought being a lecturer may be easier and less exhausting.
Well, actually, I am just really confused at the moment and am not sure what path I should now take, if in fact I should get back into studying.
Having worked with consultants, I have become disillusioned at the medical profession, so wish not to waste an extra 4 years studying medicine, if I have to continually 'jump through hoops' as some Doctor's put it, just to be able to maintain certain contracts or whatnot.
Basically, I am a very confused person, not sure what I am wanting with life and any advice would be appreciated, as Masha'allah, having read through various posts, we seem to have posters with a wide variety of backgrounds on this forum.
Finally, please remember me in your duahs, so that I may get out of this bored state.
Jazakallah in advance...
The reason I want to leave is simply because the hours will change in a major way, which will affect my life in general.
I wish not to work in the middle of the night, answering some Doctor's call to process an urgent sample, as a lone worker.
Assalamu-alaikum ukthi,
I think this is a good enough reason to be considering a career change (esp. for a woman).
I myself have worked many late nights and crazy hours (28+ hour shifts) in the past.
Alhamdulillah, this is just a distant memory for me now, and I pray that Allah forgives all of my past and future short-comings. ameen.
However, a career change is a big decision to make - its like starting a completely new chapter in your life.
So, you should ensure that you are doing it for the best reasons insha Allah:
e.g. It is possible to work in a lab that does not require night shifts......have you sought these opportunities?
In any case, I think you should ask yourself the following with regards to your current field of work:
- Is my job drawing me closer to Allah.....or possibly distancing me from Him? (e.g. from inter-mingling with the opposite sex, etc).
- Why am I actually working? (is it to support myself until marriage, insha Allah? Or as a service to mankind/ the ummah?)
- If your current line of work is not the most appropiate for a woman (because of undue interaction with males) - what else can you get involved in, without too much effort in this regard?
The reason i mention this, is because it is my personal belief that we tend to spend tooo much time in trying to attain worldly-related knowledge......and not enough time spent in acquiring knowledge of our deen.
Both are important, but very often our scales are weighted more to this dunya.
So, if you have already acquired one degree in chemistry - alhamdulillah.
And unless it is
absolutely necessary to change fields - why not divert your attention to seeking knowledge in islam?
e.g you can enroll into online islamic courses/ universities (many are available for a minimal fee, and also offer sponsorships).
or join an arabic class
or make an intention to learn hifz......subhanAllah, what rewards exist for the one who makes the effort to commit the words of Allah to memory!
or join a NPO - and spend your free time in serving the less fortunate.
There is so much that we can do.....and so little time!
So make sure that: your intentions are correct before embarking on anything.
And dont forget to read istikharah.
We can only provide our feeble advices here.
But it is Allah that is the BEST of guides.
May Allah guide you towards all that is most pleasing to Him.
Ameen.
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