Greetings and a belated welcome to the forum Veritas.
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Veritas
I will be meeting up with my brother scimitar next year, and in our mutual showing of respect to one another anand to understand each other's faith a little better, we will each attend church / mosque with the other and pray together.
I believe respect for the other doesn't and shouldn't have to be demonstrated by going to their place of worship and worshipping with them. It is about you and your relationship with God and your beliefs about Him. It shouldn't be for anyone else. When you pray in a certain place or in a certain way for someone else, to demonstrate your respect for that person, then your prayer is no longer solely for God's sake. It also suggests that if one doesn't go to the others place of worship and worship with them then they perhaps haven't reached a certain level of respect. For a Muslim, we have set ways we have been instructed to worship, and we must stick to those.
It doesn't mean that there is no common ground, but in eagerness to share common ground, we, as Muslims, must not cross the boundaries of our faith.
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Veritas
I would like to know what I should do to prepare to pray in a mosque, to not only show the requisite respect to God, but also to my brother, Scimitar.
For salaat to be accepted, one must have taken the shahaadah (i.e.become a Muslim) and have taken a full bath or at least wudhu.
However, you're welcome to enter the mosque, and see what it's like, see what happens, speak to some of the brothers there, and if you want to try the prayer movements/words etc, though ideally this shouldn't be during the time for the congregation of the compulsory prayer.
Will you be using Islamic movements and words in the mosque, and brother Scimitar praying using Christian words and rituals in the church? That being the case, for a Muslim, we'll not be doing any favours to ourselves before God, nor to others. It is in fact forbidden for a Muslim to do that.
I don't know how much you know about the concept of God in Islam, but will mention some things here. These are the most important things for you to understand:
There is only One God. He alone should be worshipped. He is our Creator, Sustainer, Cherisher, and Lord. No being, no object, nothing other than Him, is worthy of prayer/worship.
He does not beget, nor is He begotten. He has no sons, daughters, siblings, parents, cousins, or relatives of any sort.
He is eternal and does not die.
He does not depend on anyone/anything yet we all depend on Him. He is free of all want and need.
There is nothing like Him. He is all Hearing, all Seeing, all Knowing, all Powerful, the Creator of the Universe.
He did not and does not, dwell in human or animal bodies, nor are there any incarnations of Him. He is not mixed up in His creation in any way.
He is not composed of persons, nor a trinity. There are no secondary, lesser, greater, equal, or multiple gods, no intermediaries, and no denying of God's existence either.
There are no sharers or associates or parts whatsoever in His exclusive Divinity. Simply, He is One, in every sense.
You may also find this link useful:
http://www.islamicboard.com/discover...ml#post1557675
Peace.