format_quote Originally Posted by
Iceee
Salaam.
If people want to pay for me, why would I say no? Them paying for me is a gift from Allah Subhanahuwatallah to me.
i find that very hard to disagree with.
but even if your friends and even people you do not know, offer to pay for you then you should at least work towards keeping them happy.
maybe you are just a great person to be around.
there was a vid on the forum not too long ago,
a shiek was giving a very humourous interpretation of heaven.
where a person is lead from room to room.
each one better than the last.
maybe you are of those lucky enough to actually have a glimpse of that already.
format_quote Originally Posted by
Iceee
Salaam.
Free lunch is given a lot of times to me. I accept it sometimes.
Saving money was easy for me because all the Eid money saved for me and my brothers, went directly to our parents who put it in a bank account. When I saw the saved money when I turned 18, I was so excited to save more and more and get enough for a car!
Plan something to save a lot of money for. I'm working for a car Inshallah, find something you like.
yeah i like my cars.
unfortunately im not very good at saving up.
and even if i was it would take me years at present... years and years.
so i gave up on the car.
count your blessings really, i went from thinking i was going to get £25 an hour to jobless.
so yeah, i cant really argue with what you said.
you seem young and the world is what you make it.
maybe your friends would not be happy always paying for you but if they dont tell you then there is nothing you can do about it, and if they back bite about it..
then its there sin not yours.
funny how that works.