Stay Centrally Located.

[Abu Fauzi]

Assalam alaikum,
The Messenger of Allah, Prophet Muhammad, Sallallahu alaihi Wasallam, said:--"Allah has written for the son of Adam his inevitable share of adultery whether he is aware of it or not: The adultery of the eye is the looking (at something which is sinful to look at), and the adultery of the tongue is to utter (what it is unlawful to utter), and the inner self wishes and longs for (adultery) and the private parts turn that into reality or refrain from submitting to the temptation". [Sahih Bukhari]

Indeed, immodesty, obscenenity and any form of adultery be it of the eyes, ears, tongue or thoughts makes a hole in the heart. Through this hole leaks out Imaan/Faith. No matter how hard you try to fill your heart with Imaan, it will be flowing out because of this hole. While an inappropriate thought may occur to anybody, as Shaytaan always tries to inspire people with these, yet it is the person who decides whether to entertain such ideas, discussion, temptation or turn away from them.

If you are on a Plateau, the more centrally you stand on it, the safer you are. The more you get closer to its sides, the greater the danger that you might fall off the edge. Therefore, to avoid the major form of adultery, we must stay away from its minor forms, ie the adultery of the eyes, tongue, ears and thoughts. That way, we will be safe. One should also avoid movies that glamorize the immoral/obscene. If anindecent thought occurs to you, seek refuge with Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala from Shaytaan and do not entertain such thoughts...

Best Wishes.

[BeTheChange]

Walaikumasalaam

Insha Allah. If we can control our thoughts we are in control of our eyes and if we are in control of our eyes we are in control of our actions.

Alhamdulilah.

May Allah swa help us all Ameen