format_quote Originally Posted by
Night
Is you father good looking?
I don't know how to define a man's face whether he is handsome or not... some people call others ugly, yet those ugly people still be able to find a spouse.
if sister want to judge the situation by making a scenario that my father is a good looking, it's up to sister...
format_quote Originally Posted by
h-n
you haven't mentioned much on how you feel, just accusations of her being a bad person.
I don't know, sis, I only have impression about her that she is young, good looking, good cook, that's all...
format_quote Originally Posted by
h-n
they don't have to stay miserable for the sake of a child
one day, my younger brother sports teacher need to meet our parents, maybe my younger brother have problem on his sport class. rather than go to his mother, he go to his father (my father and my younger brother is close since my younger brother is my father's favorite child).
when arrive at my father's house, he saw a young woman on his house, because of that, he come back to our home (our current house, where I, my mother and my younger brother lives).
since that event, my younger brother start to come home late, after school he waste his time at game center, he start to act cold toward my father. times passes by, my younger brother stop to go to school. there is no hope for him to go back to school, so his highest education is junior high school (there's no way he have problem with the study since he is so smart...).
we ever brought him to psychologist, and it looks he suffer high depression... and now his activity is playing video games, sleeping, eating, he frequently lock himself on his room, if we talk about his future he will get angry and slammed his door. once in a while my mother woke me up to breaching his room's door because he took a knife from the kitchen and locked his door. I don't know if my mother ever planned to get married again, but my mother said she can't afford to make my brother get worse than this...
when I see father and mother fight each other, at dining table, on the car, somehow it's something normal, it's not bothering me, "oh, I see, they both at each other throat again". one night, I woke up at midnight, I heard the sound of exhaust of my father car, in the morning I see no presence of my father, looks like he went to his second house (his current house).
one night, my mother came to my room, asking me whether we should accept him again in this house, or let him go forever. I prefer to let him go forever. I see no chance for both of them to rebuild their relationship again, my mother keep telling my father cheating and never spent on her, while my father keep telling that my mother is a rebel wife, beside I don't really like my father...
everytime I see a happy family, I keep asking myself, why it's make them happy to be together with their family, have dinner at restaurant, go shopping together, or go on vacation...
when I have dinner in my father house with my father and his wife, seeing both of them get along so well while having dinner, I ask myself, why I feel so sad... is this how it's feel, having a family... yet when my parents still together, why I never have a feeling like this...
sorry to make a thread like this, it looks like I'm not focus on the subject, it just... I am... confuse... upset... depressed... angry... awkward... weird... I don't know exactly how I feel...