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Anas Lewis
My family isn't your average sized family. I have 7 siblings. I sometimes even forget their age.
Don't get me wrong, we can have typical discussions about random topics, but we don't share a lot of things with each other. But Alhamdhulilah. I will try to rebuild our bonds.
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My wife (late) had 7 siblings too. 4 sisters and 3 brothers. Did they close with each other?. Close enough, but female with female were closer than male with male, or female with male.
I myself have 3 siblings. I am the eldest, the 2nd is my brother, the 3rd and 4th are my sisters. .
Honestly, my closest sibling actually my 3rd sister. My 2nd brother? I always talk with him, but we rarely in discussion. Me and my brother have different social circles since we were teen although few of his friends are my friends too. While my 4th sister? when we were teen, some of her friends assumed that I was her boyfriend. :D
But we really love each other. There's always emotional bond between us.
Closeness between siblings actually is not measured by how long they can discuss with each other, but measured by how strong emotional bond between them.
Like I've said, I rarely discuss with my brother, but I am always there for him anytime he need me. Like now, when he is in problem because the mistake he has made in investment and need financial support.
Always there for your siblings anytime they need you.