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Eric H
Greetings and peace be with you najimuddin; and thanks for sharing,
In life, we probably would like to change other people, rather than change ourselves.
In t5he spirit of praying to a just and merciful God,
Eric
Greetings and peace to you as well brother Eric,
I understand your reasoning. Thankfully, I have been made aware - through the guidance of Muhammad (PBUH) - that Allah will only ask me about me and who I had responsibility over - my wife and kids in my case. Due to this teaching of Islam, I have to focus on developing
myself according to Muhammad's (PBUH) sunnah/way of thinking, acting, and feeling. It is not an option, it is an obligation.
I have no control over other peoples beliefs and actions. According to what I have learned, I will not be questioned about what I had no control over. Thus,
my self-reformation - according to way of Muhammad (PBUH) - is priority number one.
May Allah guide us all.