A Husbands guide to ruining a good Marriage

[strivingobserver98]

[emoji174] A husbands guide to ruining a good marriage:

1. Show ingratitude and ask more than you give [emoji110].

2. Mention her faults regularly [emoji350][emoji351].

3. Use her faults to cover up your faults [emoji87].

4. Spend time out randomnly and unecessarily outside. When she calls, dont answer[emoji124][emoji125].

5. When at home put the laptop, games, tv, ipad all on. Be connected to the world but be disconected at home. Enjoy mature movies as if it is fine [emoji342][emoji341][emoji338].

6. The absent father [emoji154].

7. Argue and fight infront of your children [emoji128][emoji350].

8. Strike/hit her and then say "if you didnt do this then this would not have happened" [emoji35].

9. Spend your money on luxuries except things that enrich you spiritually because ilm should be free[emoji383][emoji183][emoji184].

10. Infront of her family and friends, put her down and say im just joking [emoji2][emoji23][emoji5].

11. Frown, yell, glare your eyes, be sarcastic and expect intimacy at the end of the day [emoji34][emoji19][emoji57].

12. Hyprocritically attend places you forbid her to go to because no muslim woman should go there [emoji56].

13. Motivate her by comparing her to others like friends wife, cousins wife etc so she knows she is bottom of the list [emoji108].

14. Never reconsider a decision when you know its wrong [emoji107].

15. Fail to protect her from inlaws and let her deal with things on her own [emoji87][emoji86]

[Scimitar]

Bloomin's heck farhan...

*sits down and catches his breath*

[LaSorcia]

Yep, that would ruin just about any marriage alright!

[Raptor]

16. Talk about polygamy to your wife :p:

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[sister herb]

16. Talk about polygamy to your wife :p:

And then the fight started...

Like in here: http://www.islamicboard.com/puzzles-...les-fight.html

:facepalm:

[M.I.A.]

Not sure about this really,

Imo most marriages are struggles, its part of having a real relationship.

Sometimes love is hard work and I can appreciate that.

Finding a middle ground is important and arguably helps the relationship grow.

To be able to get through struggle is just as big an ideal and arguably just as romantic.

Most points are spot on though.

[ardianto]

After you post the thread "A Husbands guide to ruining a good Marriage" and "A Wife guide to ruining a good Marriage", when will you post thread "The Third Party guide to ruining a good Marriage"?.

Many marriages ruined because intervention of third party, bro. :p

[aamuslim]

oh boy, what are we teaching people on these forums now... :popcorn:

[greenhill]

Hmmm.... to be aware of the total picture? not to look at just one point of view?

:peace:

oh boy, what are we teaching people on these forums now... :popcorn:

[BilalKid]

oh boy, what are we teaching people on these forums now... :popcorn:

what not to do :shade:

[azc]

It's msg a for bachelors.