"And among His Signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He put love and mercy between your hearts. Verily in that are Signs for those who reflect." [Sûrah Rûm: 21]
Maulana Sindhi just gave some really good advice for a successful marriage at a nikah. He said these are the T's of a successful marriage.
T Is for Taqwa - the foundation of a successful marriage. Fearing Allah allow both parties to live in harmony.
T is for Trust - don't allow any room for your spouse to doubt you and give them some personal space
T is for Tongue - control your tongue when speaking to your spouse. Don't speak rudely.
T is for Talk - Communicate with your spouse regularly. Let them know your feelings.
T is for Time - make time to spend with your spouse, and realise that your life timetable has to change once you're married.
T is for Tea - make sure you eat and drink together at the same time as this creates love between 2 people
T is for Tolerance - nobody is perfect, but look at the good qualities in your spouse and tolerate the bad with patience
T is for Technology - technology can make or break a relationship. Don't allow it to become the third person in the relationship.
T is for Trouble makers - don't allow the rumours and comments of others spoil the harmony between you and your partner
T is for Temper - this is one of biggest reasons behind marriages breaking. Control your anger with your spouse.
T is for Tahajjud - wake up in the night for Tahajjud and even pray together, and encourage each other to do good deeds
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