It's natural, especially for women, to fear your first night with your new spouse. Yet something beautifully fascinating inexplicably happens to both newlyweds in the first months of their marriage.
In this honeymoon phase, testosterone levels in women uncharacteristically rise making them more excitable and confident in the bedroom. On the other hand, oxytocin levels (the "love" hormone) rise in men making them more sensitive and compassionate.
As a result, the newlyweds find passion and harmony despite still getting to know one another. This is a blessing from Allah.
“And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you love and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought.” Surat Al-Rum: 21
It is with love and mercy together that we may find tranquility in our spouses. Both are blessings from Allah and from among His signs; so always make dua for both in your upcoming marriage!
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