Originally Posted by Regrets1
Assalaamu alaikum, my dear,
he is the sort of man who would put images of you on the internet... how would marrying him protect you? (sigh) You'd just be giving him more
access to you, and therefore more
potential for problems in the future...
My dear, please try to hold onto the positive: you're getting away from him
. And without having to go through any kind of divorce proceedings, or worrying about your children being harmed, or any financial worries... (smile) Thanks to your iman
and perceptiveness, you didn't
get too entangled with this man.
And no matter what he does or does not do, you
are a decent person
. And probably there is nothing
to be concerned about. Trust in God, my dear. Let go of this fear, it cannot help you in any way. It just enslaves you to dark thoughts and puts your peace of mind in another person's power. And potentially opens you up to greater harm.
Hugs, my dear. Forget about him, and accept the caring of the people around you. (smile) Including me. Hugs again.
May God, the Gentle, Help us have the strength to let go.