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Mustafa16
I just finished 11th grade, but I only have one semester of High school left and then I transfer to community college for one semester
Thanks for sharing that with me.
The reason why I ask is because I'm a psychology professor and noticed your interest in getting a graduate degree(s) in psychology. I can appreciate that and would like to point some things out in relation to this.
You are aware that while you can become a therapist with a Master's degree, the PhD is necessary to become fully licensed. Among many things, pursuing this type of graduate study has two major issues that need to be considered, which are:
1. the amount of time completion will take, and
2. the real possibility of getting into debt.
I think you need to get married as soon as possible. I also believe your mother has your best interest at heart. Please do listen to her.
To accomplish both of the above I am going to suggest a course of action that I recommend you look into.
According to the US Bureau of Labor and Statistics Occupational Outlook Handbook, Computer Information Technology jobs such as Information Security Analysts are growing faster than the average for other occupations. See here:
http://www.bls.gov/ooh/computer-and-...y-analysts.htm
While the description mentions the need for a bachelor's degree, an associate's degree will get you something very close to - if not better - than what's described.
Because of this, I recommend that you look into the CIS (Computer Information Systems) programs that your local community colleges offer. Completing an Associate's degree in CIS at a community college will take you about 2.5 years of full-time study (including summers) and will equip you with skills that are in high demand. A key component with this is developing a working relationship with an Academic Advisor and emphasizing that you be placed in an internship towards the end of your program.
Furthermore, it's quite possible that Pell Grants will pay for everything. So no debt. Even if it doesn't, community college tuition is peanuts compared to universities.
To sum up:
Earlier completion of education + no debt + high demand, well paying job = earlier marriage back home and lots of dough for the wife, :ia:.
Think about it. It's an option.