Muhammedbin
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Salam aleikum brothers and sisters. This message might be long but i hope you have the patience to read it, so here I start.
Im a 20 year old man, I live in Europe and I moved here when I was 3 years old, My mom and dad separated just a few months as we arrived to europe, my mom found out that here in europe you get a monthly income for having children, and that is the main reason why she left my father so she could receive all the money to her self.
That is how it all started, and when the divorce happened she would hit us if we had any contact with our father, so me and my older brother and sister, thought our father must be a bad person, since our mother was so strict when it came to our father.
So we moved away from our father and we never got to see him in a long time, about 5 years if i remember right.
My mother is a very dramatic person, and every where we moved the neighborhood and people around it would know about us, soon my mother married a new man, she had 3 more children with him and we became a big family mashallah. Now fast forward some years, we lived very happily as we thought until a problem afflicted us, my mother seemed to be having problems with the new man she married, and the problem got so big so we knew rhey would divorce shortly, they did and my mother moved away from the country with all of us. We moved to turkey, and here in turkey i saw my mothers true face, she is not the mother i thought she was,when it came to my mother she was always right. One day I discovered something in our house, it was a writing of sihir, I found it in my mothers room so came running to her and i shouted" MOM IS THIS NOT SIHIR?" She told me to throw it away so i did. But since then my life turned upside down, i started having panic attacks, and the only thing that could calm me was cannabis, so i smoked it heavily. Then a incident happened my mother was in debt, so she took all of my siblings and left me to deal with the problem. I did not even have money for food so i called my father, and he helped me with the debt, and fixed me a planeticket back to him. As fast as i arrived he told me "My son you might think im crazy, but your mother deals with jinns & sihir" I believed him immediately, it was like a instinct feeling that i knew about this. So my father thought me islam, in a way that it opened my heart and not a single day goes by now that i dont pray and surrender to Allah SWT. Everything is in Allah hands, but i still love my mother and siblings and how should I approach them in the future? Or should I even? I wanna hear a islamic perspective about this situation and how i should deal with it without committing a sin?
Im a 20 year old man, I live in Europe and I moved here when I was 3 years old, My mom and dad separated just a few months as we arrived to europe, my mom found out that here in europe you get a monthly income for having children, and that is the main reason why she left my father so she could receive all the money to her self.
That is how it all started, and when the divorce happened she would hit us if we had any contact with our father, so me and my older brother and sister, thought our father must be a bad person, since our mother was so strict when it came to our father.
So we moved away from our father and we never got to see him in a long time, about 5 years if i remember right.
My mother is a very dramatic person, and every where we moved the neighborhood and people around it would know about us, soon my mother married a new man, she had 3 more children with him and we became a big family mashallah. Now fast forward some years, we lived very happily as we thought until a problem afflicted us, my mother seemed to be having problems with the new man she married, and the problem got so big so we knew rhey would divorce shortly, they did and my mother moved away from the country with all of us. We moved to turkey, and here in turkey i saw my mothers true face, she is not the mother i thought she was,when it came to my mother she was always right. One day I discovered something in our house, it was a writing of sihir, I found it in my mothers room so came running to her and i shouted" MOM IS THIS NOT SIHIR?" She told me to throw it away so i did. But since then my life turned upside down, i started having panic attacks, and the only thing that could calm me was cannabis, so i smoked it heavily. Then a incident happened my mother was in debt, so she took all of my siblings and left me to deal with the problem. I did not even have money for food so i called my father, and he helped me with the debt, and fixed me a planeticket back to him. As fast as i arrived he told me "My son you might think im crazy, but your mother deals with jinns & sihir" I believed him immediately, it was like a instinct feeling that i knew about this. So my father thought me islam, in a way that it opened my heart and not a single day goes by now that i dont pray and surrender to Allah SWT. Everything is in Allah hands, but i still love my mother and siblings and how should I approach them in the future? Or should I even? I wanna hear a islamic perspective about this situation and how i should deal with it without committing a sin?
