Originally Posted by MuslimahRo
My sister the safeguards for women requiring mahrams to travel particularly out of the country are there for good reasons. Regardless of how much you think you trust this man you can never be sure of your safety if you were to go out there alone.
There are many predators out there who fool and decieve women by charming them and promising marriage etc but they have other intentions. On top of that there is also the risk of sin for you to be out there alone.
Therefore your only choice is to travel to his family with a mahram who must be with you at all times during your visit. If this is not possible then there is no other choice but for this potential to come and see you with your family.
Remember as long as we do that which keeps us safe within the boundaries set by Allah then surely he will find a way for us that we never imagined. Also make isthikhara about this especially during these blessed nights.
May Allah do what is best for you. Ameen