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M.I.A.
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Spend some time in the company of two women and maybe the truth becomes clear.
Can you elaborate more on what you mean by that?
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M.I.A.
Until men can come to terms with the consequences of lapsing in religion.. nothing will change.
I agree in above 100%
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M.I.A.
I doubt very much that the nature of man or woman has changed over time.. our understanding of those roles has changed.
I agree that boys and girls have not changed since the beginning of Adam to be honest. What I don't think should have being done is the role changes. When each gender is created in such away to function for a certain role changing the role will cause problems. Why in the world should a role be changed? The nature of the physical of that gender will not change just because we think it should change. The very destruction of society is the changing the gender role. I will put full hardly the blame in Westernization and Feminist and you name it..but I also put the blame on us. Where we are so attached to this world and want success in this world we are willing to destroy our sons for it. That is where my rage comes in.
Be honest with me M.I.A, right now...how many fathers out there are actually giving their sons a purpose and gender role? How many fathers out there going out of his way to be with his son and teach him to be a man, teach him his role and so on. How many fathers out there are friends with their sons..actually enjoy being with their sons? So many fathers are obsessed with working and making money and climbing the corporate ladder. So many boys grow up without purpose...they focus only in sports...and we have boys in crisis. Let me tell you...in the long run it does not help anyone when the pendulum is tilted into extreme opposite direction. I want to see 90% of boys in society who look up to their fathers as heroes and not some pop cultured musician in TV.
I am not lying to you when I said this....but when I was in the skytrain coming home only a week ago or some what...I saw a father carrying his son...the tiny little arm of that boy was wrapped around the neck of the father...the boy did not stop smiling...did not stop being happy...and he was soooooooooooooo quiet and well behaved. The father was smiling too..and the father did little motion of playing with his son by making his son go and down fast and the child laughed and wrapped around his father's neck even more.
Another time in different day...a father was sitting in the bus with his son. His son is so well behaved..so calm..so relaxed and looked so mature too. Boys are human being who deserve our love and respect and to be treated well. Not to be drugged and without purpose. These two boys had their natural pills and it is called a dad. Dad's are the natural drugs for sons to be calmed and relaxed. Dads are the natural remedy for their sons to be well behaved and even increase in intelligence. Sons want to play with their dads.
In the old times fathers used to take their sons out for hunting. Taught him how to be a man. Taught him honor, discipline. Showed him the ropes of the world. Taught him to strive for success. Gave him a lineage and something to look for. Gave him a role. A purpose. Now you see lots of healthy boys and young men in streets..just doing nothing. Without purpose. Never saw how to be a man. How to be a dad. Boys are in crisis. This is no joke. It need to be fixed. Gender role need to return and boys need to take their place again. This is abuse and wallahi if we do not change and we do not care what happened to boys..and then I hear a boy going to school and mass shooting...I will laugh and say, "Atta boy". I say go for it. When I hear women screaming where are the good men are? I will be jumping and dancing. You want to know why? Because majority of women now do not marry a man for his religion. Do not marry a man for his character. DO NOT MARRY A MAN TO BE A GOOD FATHER. Majority of women are looking for that baaad boy whom they want to try to go under the hood to change. When more women seek out bad men..more good men want to become bad men.
When majority of women want worldly things...men who cannot afford worldly things will start doing illegal things to get it to please his womenfolk. Both men and women need to change their ways fast. Women fighting to take over men's role..in my opinion is as evil as a man going out of his way and killing people. Both genders SHOULD NOT CROSS BOUNDARIES because destroying one gender will destroy the other. Because if women did succeed in destroying her men forever and she got it all...and she is at the top of the mountain screaming, "I RULE THE WOORLD!" Let me tell you..you lost. You did not win.
Have anyone played Ultima 7 serpent Isle? That game of course have shirk on it..but the story concept there are two forms of faction...order of chaos and order of Order.
Chaos
* Tolerance is that which encourages the acceptance of all things.
* Enthusiasm is the energy that allows one to perform great tasks.
* Emotion is the ability to perceive those feelings that come from the heart, as
opposed to those from the mind.
Order
* Ethicality is the belief that there is great value in abiding by rules of
conduct.
* Discipline is the drive to complete a task and avoid the distractions that
will prevent its completion.
* Logic permits clear, reasoned thought, free from any instinctual biases.
Chaos is about emotions, tolerance, etc, vs order of Order about Ethicality, discipline and logic. When there is no balance between them..one faction will destroy the second faction..and when such destruction occurs...they go insane and both lose.
Something need to be done or society will not succeed if men are destroyed. I say when boys are in crisis...I am looking at it...as society is in crisis even if women are successful. Society is in crisis and society have failed when boys have failed and are in crisis.