Originally Posted by Desert
Sister...majority of women in hellfire from the time prophet was the biggest main reason at that time was because they are ungrateful to their husband and verbally abusive to their husband. A husband would do 99% good to her and when he fails in that 1% she tells him you HAVE DONE NOTHING RIGHT. Nothing! Come on sister...if you had a son would you want such put down and verbal abuse to go unpunished. Nowadays the rights of husbands are completely stripped down to the gutter. Observe how men are portrait in media and social life and you will find we live in the era where a husband obeys his wife. He have to obey his wife if he does not want to lose his children, house and go to prison. Do you think this goes well with the qura'an and sunnah? It goes against it...so the majority of modern women are failing completely in that regard. Don't forget there are kafir and mushrik women who are going to be in hellfire and do not forget the time when baby boys will be less birthed and there will be more baby girls birthed...because we are damaging the Y chromosome with wifi, internet, food intake if you have a son and you see him put a laptop on his lap and you know it is wrong and you do nothing about it..you are contributing to destruction of the Y chromosome which means less boys born...what happens then at that time is there will be unbalance of gender in such ways...
African community have shown and proven when there are no men around or few of them..majority of the women go outside walking naked, are verbally and physically abusive to each other and other men and cause backbiting and harm to the community this adds to the ticket to hellfire and additional increase the amount of women going to hellfire. Less men born..more women born..more chance of women been in hellfire under just that statistics because eventually percentage of good vs bad women with constant increase in population (as men birth rate will slow to a halt) will make it majority of hellfire. So you have to put all that into a picture. I mean look at how many sisters put their fist on their wrist and shame men and question why men are allowed to get married four wives and she is only allowed to get married one. Why men inherit more? Islam is such patriarch...etc.etc All of these shows diseases in a person's heart and will put you greater risk of entering hellfire because you object to Allah's ruling and this puts you out of fold Islam. Not so many sisters are taught this or warned and many do not even care. Another cause of causing a woman to go to hellfire is she use the children as a weapon against the father and cause cutting ties between the father and child and this is a warning in Qura'an in itself. Some even go as far as change the last name of the father to despise the father and she does not know this but that leads to kufr if she does that.
Another cause to lead a woman to hellfire is her asking her husband for divorce without Islamic reason. Any women who do this..paradise is FORBIDDEN TO HER...so many come to USA and western world and divorce their husband without islamic reason like infested ant colony.
So all of these I am pointing out in hopes sisters see that if they fall in that category that they should change their ways, repent and save their skin and not so I can put blame. No. I am listing the cause of hellfire...now it is time to change your ways so you do not fall under that statistic at all.
I was telling my mom this same thing. I was telling my mom I see so many women out there verbally and physically forming a rally against men and gender role and seeking to destroy men or take over his role...but I do not see so many of them forming a rally with each other to unite them as one group and discuss how to save their skin in the afterlife. I mean I would want to see all the women on Earth to go to paradise but that will not happen, so for all the Muslim women out there I pray that Allah raise you high level in Janna and that Allah may make open your hearts so that you strive to please him and be like the great women at the time of the sahaba and prophet peace be upon him so that little punishment happen in the afterlife. But if parents do not save their daughter's skin and go
"oooooooooo" she got an A++! "Aaaaaaaaah!" she got an honor's degree but she goes outside walking in tight jeans and have Western mentality and feminist verbiage...sorry but that girl is from the losers not the winners and the parents are hypnotized by the illusion of this world and have simply handed their daughters to the gate of hellfire.
Even if majority of the women will eventually leave hellfire and enter paradise...who wants to sit there for a second let alone millions of years and who here have lived that long? You have to understand that one day there is 50,000 days here....so if you where sentenced to hellfire for 100 days (who can even tolerate a second) that will 5,000,000 years in hellfire. Anyone lived that long here? So best to avoid hellfire by striving to please Allah and take all the warnings seriously and take your deen seriously same goes to me...I fall short in everything I do bad things I need to get my heart in the afterlife...because I do not want to stay a second in hellfire if I could avoid it.