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urkahnkhan
I didn't disagree with it entirely because you have some good points but there is some parts that I did.
3. You Rebel Against Society
To be honest with you as someone who has grown up and lives almost 25yrs in the western world it's a rough world out there mann when comes to safeguarding iman. Anyone who trusts that society or way of life will lose himself guaranteed. It's a society that completely is not suited for Islam and where sins have been made much much more easier then anywhere else in the world.
The world as you see is a very very dark place currently and this is just the reality where deception is outspread and at it's peak. Anyone not looking around his shoulders within his society and not learned the know how to avoid them will be knocked right back into that filth.
Another thing to consider is the massive out put of media propaganda and brain-washing taking place.
9. You Get Married
Zina is outspread and most people should be adviced to marry in order to avoid further sins
Of society: We can't live without society is a fact. It's also not denied of society being inflicted with harmful evils and incondusive aura, nevertheless, isolating from society is also not helpful. Arab society was the worst kind of society ever existed on this planet, notwithstanding prophet s.a.w didnot isolate himself from the people and keep on inviting them to truth. So in the light of seerah, we're guided to sticking to the right path as well as inviting others to the true Islamic teachings. This responsibility, no doubt, is a bit hard though but is feasible. This thorny way treading whereupon is difficult, indeed, is full of trials. As a result people will either follow or leave us but our job is done for the sake of Allah swt.
But real issue is that when we become practicing Muslim we begin to hate the people if they're not practicing Muslims and condemn the society. It proves of us not being truthful Muslims. A sincere one cries for their guidance in tahajjud, love them for the sake of Allah swt and invite them to right path sincerely and affectionately but invariably we're lacking in these traits.
Of marriage: until a man is mentally prepared to take the responsibility of the family, should not marry, is my personal opinion, else fasting has been prescribed by shariah as the solution to subdue carnal desires.